I am interested in an enormously attractive guy at my school...

[Mariah98]

Now you're both young so he probably would like having carefree, hot sex. You seem into this, too, so I think you should be very flirtatious and let him know you know how to ride a bull like a pro.

Hahaha, well maybe I could use a bit of cleavage in order to "tempt" him a bit? ^_^

[littlez360]

Don't worry about the other girls. If you're really an 8, just show him some thong. You don't need to be a 10 trust me, I'll take an 8 that can get freaky than a 10 that crosses her legs any day.

[truth_seeker]

It's good to hear that.

I really want this guy.

 

How quickly do you think I can make a move on him?

Is it alright to seek a lot of physical contact and maybe even try kissing him on the mouth at some good enough opportunity the first time we date?

 

Woah! You're already on a date with him?! You need to talk to him first then see if he's up to going out with you.

 

 

Lets keep this simple: when you see him again, be flirtatious. Let him know you want to hang out. Also, some light touching would go a long way.

 

For now, though, I order you to take a shower and relieve yourself.

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[Mariah98]

Don't worry about the other girls. If you're really an 8, just show him some thong. You don't need to be a 10 trust me, I'll take an 8 that can get freaky than a 10 that crosses her legs any day.

What do you mean about "show some thong"?

 

Woah! You're already on a date with him?! You need to talk to him first then see if he's up to going out with you.

 

 

 

Lets keep this simple: when you see him again, be flirtatious. Let him know you want to hang out. Also, some light touching would go a long way.

 

For now, though, I order you to take a shower and relieve yourself.

Haha I didn't mean it like that, it's just that I think he is really really attractive an I want to make a good impression on him.

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[littlez360]

When I was 18, if an "8" walked in front of me with her shirt just short enough to see a ready lacey thong from the back... That would be on my mind all day. Then if that girl were to approach me I'd be like a Lion all over that...

[Mariah98]

When I was 18, if an "8" walked in front of me with her shirt just short enough to see a ready lacey thong from the back... That would be on my mind all day. Then if that girl were to approach me I'd be like a Lion all over that...

Haha, wouldn't it be hard for him to notice it?

I would have to pull that skirt up above my hips if my thong is gonna be visible. xP

[truth_seeker]

When I was 18, if an "8" walked in front of me with her shirt just short enough to see a ready lacey thong from the back... That would be on my mind all day. Then if that girl were to approach me I'd be like a Lion all over that...

 

Forget thong. Today I see a great butt in yoga pants and my soldier is at full attention.

[Mariah98]

Forget thong. Today I see a great butt in yoga pants and my soldier is at full attention.

Haha wow, but I probably shouldn't rely too much on my body in order to get him interested in me.

[littlez360]

There ya go! those yoga pants...

[littlez360]

Use you're body, but don't depend on it. A guy just needs the right buttons pushed and his clothes will just kinda come off...

[truth_seeker]

Haha, wouldn't it be hard for him to notice it?

I would have to pull that skirt up above my hips if my thong is gonna be visible. xP

 

Go with yoga pants and a top with no bra underneath.

[littlez360]

You could just pin him up against a locker and be an animal... It all depend on how bad you want him and how bold you're willing to be.

I guarantee you though, you can bag him if you play your cards right.

[truth_seeker]

There ya go! those yoga pants...

 

Tell me about it.

[Mariah98]

You could just pin him up against a locker and be an animal... It all depend on how bad you want him and how bold you're willing to be.

I guarantee you though, you can bag him if you play your cards right.

You mean, like, just walk up to him and kiss him?

[truth_seeker]

You could just pin him up against a locker and be an animal... It all depend on how bad you want him and how bold you're willing to be.

I guarantee you though, you can bag him if you play your cards right.

 

This is my go-to suggestion:

 

She dresses hot and sexy. She approaches him and says hi. She lightly touches him and offers her number. Tells him she wants to hang out and he needs to call her. She then walks away smiling. For extra bonus, she should shake her ass as she walks away to get him very excited and eager to call her.

[Mariah98]

This is my go-to suggestion:

 

She dresses hot and sexy. She approaches him and says hi. She lightly touches him and offers her number. Tells him she wants to hang out and he needs to call her. She then walks away smiling. For extra bonus, she should shake her ass as she walks away to get him very excited and eager to call her.

Haha, well... why not? ^^

I think I will try that.

[littlez360]

You mean, like, just walk up to him and kiss him?

 

Well you kinda gotta wait for a moment where he's not around a lot of people, but don't give him an out... Walk up to him, make sure he see's you coming, and don't stop til you're right up against him, look up and kiss him on the neck...

I know how bold this seems, but as a guy, as a confident guy, this would still be very stimulating... You'd have my interest, I'd have to find out more about this chick...

[dobielover]

Granted, I'm 39 and not in high school, but knowing what I know now, if I had a daughter your age, I'd tell her to just go up to him and tell him, "Hi, I'm [name]. I've seen you around school [or however it is you know him] and think you're really cute, and I'd really like the chance to get to know you better. Would you like to [go to the game][study for the test][go to a movie][whatever] sometime?"

[littlez360]

Mariah- I sure hope you get bold with this guy... Truthseeker and I have given you the master keys into a guys pants...

[Mariah98]

Well you kinda gotta wait for a moment where he's not around a lot of people, but don't give him an out... Walk up to him, make sure he see's you coming, and don't stop til you're right up against him, look up and kiss him on the neck...

I know how bold this seems, but as a guy, as a confident guy, this would still be very stimulating... You'd have my interest, I'd have to find out more about this chick...

Haha I guess I will have to be very forward, otherwise he will almost certainly just let some other very forward girl take him.

[VeveCakes]

Do you have him on Facebook? I'm pretty sure that's your best bet for that age group. Or snap chat...from what I have heard.

[littlez360]

I disagree... Most guys hate facebook and social media...

[VeveCakes]

I disagree... Most guys hate facebook and social media...

 

How old are you? Because the teens I work with date this way - mostly talking online and texting first.

[Mariah98]

How old are you? Because the teens I work with date this way - mostly talking online and texting first.

I only see this guy sometimes at school, so I don't know his full name yet - but I am definitely gonna figure it out!

[littlez360]

I'm 29.

Yes, it seems most communication these days is done via text and whatnot.

But when it comes down to a girl landing a guy without any history together, in person action is the best way to get a guys attention. Especially if he's a good looking guy, he's getting all sorts of flirts through social media, but a chick coming up to him and being real is still going to be far more effective...