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Loose family plans, travel, hectic schedules- to text or let him?


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I've been dating this guy almost 6 months and we are exclusive. He met some of my friends and I've met some of his. We've gone on multiple "proper dates" (dinner out, movies out, outdoor events, concerts, museums, sport games, various shows/performance) and have been intimate. Both exchanged good bday presents.

 

Anyways, his mom is visiting (flew) from out of state. She will be here 12 days total. He said his mom wants to visit her cousins (also out of state, but can get there via car this weekend). They were supposed to go last weekend but she changed her mind. My bf doesn't want to go on this mini road trip this weekend but he also doesn't want to look like a jerk not visiting family.

 

I last saw him Wednesday for a movie in the theater, dinner out, then back to his place. We watched some TV and were intimate. No sleep over bc we both had to be up early to travel to our own families for Tgiving.

 

I'm looking towards the next month seeing how busy we are. He's not a great planner and I doubt this time length of not seeing each other has occurred to him.

 

Next week (tuesday-sat) I'm completely booked. He said he would come to one of my shows on Friday (so I'd obv see him there. I bought him a ticket)

 

The following week Mon-Friday he is on business trip out of state.

 

I got tickets to another event after he gets back. He said it SHOULD be fine, but he may have an out of the country work trip. Checking his calendar again it said it seems like his trip will be later in the week so he can go (company determines his departure/he doesn't have control). He also said he will pay for his ticket and it was an event he really wanted to go to with me.

 

I'm just getting a little anxious due to his loose family plans, his work travel and my performance schedule. All of this together seems to leave very little time for us to see each other in the next few weeks.

 

Should I text asking his weekend plans (visiting cousins or not) and see if he wants to get together? Or let him just get in contact with me?

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just msg him the night before .. to remind him

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