Angeleyez2583 Posted May 27, 2005 Posted May 27, 2005 Beth brought up a good question. However, do you think it's possible for an ex to not focus solely on the bad times but the good times? And is it possible for the memories of good times to out weigh the memories of the bad ones? I know my ex used to talk about his first gf and all her flaws, however, with another one, he talked about how wonderful she was (she was from a different country, and the only reason they broke up was because she had to go home).
agnf666 Posted May 27, 2005 Posted May 27, 2005 I think it all depends on how your relationship went. Usually the good times out wieght the bad times. If you had a bad relationship then all there is to remember are the bad things. I think it also depends on how long the relationship last for. With my ex, the good and bad times average to be 50/50. I can think of how nice the a**h*** was one day, then 2 days later I was ready to kick his ass.
Jadey Posted May 27, 2005 Posted May 27, 2005 I think its pretty impossible for them to not think about the good times. My ex told me he still does. How can they not really? Unless you were a bitch mostly. I can say with NO hesitation that i was brilliant to him and the break up was him, his fault, and his ****. So yeah its probably safe to say your ex thinks about the good times, Unless you were that bad of a person. But good memories seem to always overtake the bad so..
Weird Posted May 28, 2005 Posted May 28, 2005 I think an ex will think about the good times. After the relationship first ends they may just focus on the "bad" times but over time they will think about the godo times.
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