Marco_Polo_101 Posted November 27, 2015 Posted November 27, 2015 I went out on a date with a girl in her early 30s. I like her. We hit it off right from the start. I'm attracted to her. She's cute. At the end of the first date, when I kissed her, I could feel little tiny hair from her upper lip rubbing against my lip. I didn't see the hairs when I was up close, but I felt them. I'm going on a second date with her, but I don't know how to resolve the hair issue. It's the only hangup I have. What would you do? Ideally, if she can wax them, that would solve the entire problem. But, how does one even approach such an issue?
littlez360 Posted November 27, 2015 Posted November 27, 2015 Tell her she needs to wax her upper lip. Then come back and tell us her reaction LOL!!! I would have to just go find somebody else in that case my friend. Goodluck.
ses Posted November 27, 2015 Posted November 27, 2015 A lot of women are really sensitive about it so be gentle if you're going to broach the issue. I regularly tweeze/pluck my eyebrows and upper lip because I was relentlessly bullied for it in middle school. A month or so ago I was in bed with my boyfriend and he pointed out my upper lip (I hadn't plucked in a few days since my trip)--immediately I felt self-conscious. He then reassured me that it was completely normal and to not feel ashamed because humans are meant to have hair on our bodies. It felt so freeing, tbh, and I felt so loved and accepted. A lot of women struggle with PCOS so it may not entirely be laziness; women with high testosterone will have excess hair and acne. This really shouldn't be a deal-breaker if she's a great woman. Yes, people are allowed to have preferences, but unless it's a full beard/mustache, I wouldn't advocate for you to cut her loose. 2
SwordofFlame Posted November 27, 2015 Posted November 27, 2015 I've joked about this with an ex girlfriend. Let's just say she didn't find it funny at all and got very upset.
Green_Manalishi Posted November 27, 2015 Posted November 27, 2015 If something that superficial is bothering the OP, then I wish him lots of luck. He will need it. 3
mystikmind2005 Posted November 27, 2015 Posted November 27, 2015 It has been my suspicion for some time that women with above average facial hair tend to have higher sex drives! So long as she is otherwise 'feminine' it is actually a turn on for me! 'feminine' - yea, some women with above average facial hair also have above average 'man' looks,,,, which is definitely NOT a turn on.
casey.lives Posted November 27, 2015 Posted November 27, 2015 treat her to get her nails done.. and tell her she can add something else. state the exact price your willing to spend and make sure it matches the upper lip wax.. she may very well pick it .. if she's a smart in tune girl.
Mjm1014 Posted November 27, 2015 Posted November 27, 2015 (edited) On a serious note, we've all been there. You think someone is amazing then find SOMETHING that turns you off-you can't help it, I get it. If I were you, I would get the thought out of your head and realize she's a human being..every single person has flaws. Trust me I'm sure if you dated her over time, you will find out things that turn you off way more than that. Solution, don't date anyone. Seriously. We all have some type of flaws, even the super models. I would try to get over it. If you like her, and are otherwise attracted to her, go for it! Wait until she sh*ts with the door open lol. Are you going to turn around and break up with her? Hahaha. Sorry man, good luck Edited November 27, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
PrettyEmily77 Posted November 27, 2015 Posted November 27, 2015 (edited) Before you approach her with this hangup of yours, OP, you should probs make sure you look perfect from every angle yourself in case she has her own hangups she'd like you to address . Edited November 27, 2015 by PrettyEmily77
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