begman Posted May 27, 2005 Posted May 27, 2005 I have been thinking about contacting my ex lately. I started NC back in February. I still think about her a lot and even more lately. She has a brother in Iraq and I worry about his safety and wonder how she is coping with it. She was very upset about him going over there. She called me late one night right before I started NC because she was upset about it and I didn't answer. I talked to her later and I was kind of rude about it. She has been seeing someone and I was like why didn't you call your new guy to talk about it. Anyway, I know it would set me back if I emailed her. I ran into her about two months ago at a bar and she said that I could email her if I wanted. I said it is easier not to. Anyway, somebody talk me out of not contacting her because I want to.
Angeleyez2583 Posted May 27, 2005 Posted May 27, 2005 Don't do it. You have been doing really good thus far, and i don't know your situation (why you guys broke up or w/e). I mean you could contact her, but if your not over her all those feelings you used to have her will fly back into your head and your heart. Then you have to start the healing process ALL over again. Once again, don't do it unless your prepared for heart ache.
mixwell Posted May 28, 2005 Posted May 28, 2005 if she was single maybe but she isnt.. my ex has a new b/f and i think about calling sometimes but theres no point. nothing is going to get resolved.. dont make it harder on yourself by contacting her !!
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