Should I still meet at arranged time if no reply?

[fmfan08]

First date went great and she has been initiating contact with me since. I've been trying to text back minimally and arranged a second date. However, it's been nearly a day since my last text to her and she has not replied, we're going out much later tonight.

 

Should I not make contact again and just meet for the arranged time and place?

 

Here are parts of our conversation:

 

Girl - What are you doing tonight?

Me - Lying here, thinking what my next evil plan will be.. Have you finished that plate of Greek food yet?

Girl - No, I'm still with the plate, can you help me with the tomatoes? Pleasee

Me - I didn't think that you and the plate were so close.. How long have you both been together?

Girl - Well I'd like to be closer with you not with the plate.

Me - Well how about we solve that by me taking you out to a place that isn't closed when you're next free?

Girl - It'd be great!

Girl - What would you like to do next time?

Me - We'll go and see a movie, you can pick, then see where the night takes us after..

Girl - Oh yes!! I was thinking to go to the cinema this week!

Me - Great minds think alike. How's Thursday?

Girl - Yes! That's great

 

The most recent one she hasn't responded to:

 

Girl (replying to my joke) - Hahahaah

Girl - I don't know who are you talking about...

Me - I'll see you at 8 tomorrow night, same place, just make sure to bring those paper napkins because I will be throwing popcorn at you

Girl - Why do you have to throw popcorn at me???

Me - Why don't you throw it back and we'll entertain people with our popcorn fight

 

This is where I got no reply, should I just go ahead and meet her at arranged time and not contact her until she does?

[Maggie4]

You have to be there. You can text to remind her if you want. I don't think it's necessary, but you can text her asking what film she wants to see, or just something witty. Since you said you'll see her at the time/place, you must go even if you don't hear back today.

[fmfan08]

You have to be there. You can text to remind her if you want. I don't think it's necessary, but you can text her asking what film she wants to see, or just something witty. Since you said you'll see her at the time/place, you must go even if you don't hear back today.

 

Cool, yeah I'll go at said time. Seems odd she hasn't messaged though because if I don't reply to hers when I'm busy, she sends me another initiating. A few times she sends 2-3 texts splitting up what she says.

 

I'm thinking of sending "see you tonight ninja" (our nicknames for each other) but I'll wait until the afternoon to send it.

[ravfour4]

She's probably thinking the same thing you are. Based on your conversation it seemed fun and flirty, just go

[hippychick3]

She seems very interested in you. Text her a Happy Thanksgiving!

[bubbaganoosh]

How about this. Call her and ask if the date is still on. If she doesn't answer, leave a message. Honestly she should reply and let you know. It's called manners.

[Lois_Griffin]

People show tons of interest all the time then suddenly go cold.

 

I wouldn't go to the movies and wait at all.

 

I'd text her ONE last time and ask her if you're still on for the movies at 8 pm. If she ignores that text, write her off because she's just another flake.

[lyons]

She said she'd be there and she responded to your throwing popcorn comment.

 

No reason to think she won't show.

[losangelena]

I didn't read flakiness or disinterest at all. It seems like she's fully on board to me.

[smackie9]

there was another thread posted about a girl being stood up because she didn't do a follow up call to make sure their date was still on. The guy told her that he forgot :/