imtheone Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 so me and my ex agreed to be friends after breaking up, i got a bit emotional and asked her to transfer some money back and i wanted to cut all ties, she started to ignore me after i said about cutting all ties, im just wandering if shes angry at me and thats the reason shes been ignoring me. ive sent her a few messages since saying that a reacted like an idiot, but shes still ignoring me, ive never begged to get back together cause i know you cant force things to happen, last message i sent was just saying sorry if i hurt her blah blah blah. we were really friendly with each other after the break up, flirting, planning on hanging out, we just didnt want the relationship label, is she just angry casue i said i wanted to cut all ties? cause if she did she would have just gave me the money back, she dont need it cause shes rich as hell! i know ive made the mistake of texting her quite a few times, but that was because i was trying to say sorry, thanks in advance Link to post Share on other sites
Silver_star Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 uhm yea. She is ignoring you. I have read your other posts. It is clear why she is doing that. It seems despite how the actual BU ended, after the BU you acted in some ways that turned her off completely. It was a game changer for her and she doesn't want anything to do with you now. I realize you were just trying to do what you thought made sense at the time, and that's fine, but you cant change that or her feelings. If she has any feelings left for you, than you can leave her alone to figure that out and she would come back. What do you want? Do you want her back? Do you want your money back? Kiss the money good bye either way. Stop talking to her (go NC) now and save some of your dignity. Link to post Share on other sites
Author imtheone Posted November 25, 2015 Author Share Posted November 25, 2015 i do want her back, but i know she has to want me aswell to make it work, and i just want to get back on talking terms, just hurts when someone you care for just cuts you off like this, i dont really care about the money, again its confusing cause if she wanted me out of her life wouldnt she just be like here have your money and dont bother me? Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 How much money are we talking here? Link to post Share on other sites
healingsoul Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Hello Imtheone, Relationships are delicate and take a lot of clear communication. From what you have written, the relationship seems over. Your old girlfriend is not responding and you already broke up. I read in a response to another commentor that you want this old girlfriend back, but this is not good for you because you will continue to hang on to a hope of a relationship that is already over. The only thing that can result from you continuing to text her is for you to get hurt more, because she is not responding, and therefore she is making it clear she is not interested. If you step back from this situation you will probably be able to see that it is time to move on and you can find out that there are other people who really want to spend time with you and get to know you better. Many times people can't let go even when a relationship is over, because it hurts so much. I am hoping that you. Look for people who care about you and invest your time into positive relationships. Link to post Share on other sites
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