CarolineJolly18 Posted November 25, 2015 Posted November 25, 2015 I met a guy few months ago whom I thought was really nice person since I started noticing suspicious signals from his behaviour and really bad mood swings. He has uncontrollable sex drive and I rarely accept to satisfy him because I am not really interested in sex. Sometimes he is really good and caring and on the other second he gets upset over stupid things easily and dont tell me whats wrong when I try to speak with him. These past weeks were worst, I was cooking in the kitchen and left pasta for a few seconds on low temperature and he came to the kitchen and started yelling at me "you are so stupid you have zero cooking skills'' even tho pasta was fine. The other day he started chasing me in the room and I accidentally fell on the table with drinks. I hurt my knee and finger and he started shouting at me again and calling me f*cking retard. I felt really bad so I immediately started cleaning everything and he grabbed the cloth and vacuum cleaner from me and started cleaning by himself and he said that I am too stupid to be able to clean up. There were more things like these happened and I dont think I will be able to stay with him any longer. I like him and I respect him however I dont feel the same from him, even tho he tells me that he likes me. He criticize everything I do, I am never good enough and my self esteem dropped even more since I was never really confident person. Do you think I should leave him or try to improve myself to make him happier?
VeveCakes Posted November 25, 2015 Posted November 25, 2015 I met a guy few months ago whom I thought was really nice person since I started noticing suspicious signals from his behaviour and really bad mood swings. He has uncontrollable sex drive and I rarely accept to satisfy him because I am not really interested in sex. Sometimes he is really good and caring and on the other second he gets upset over stupid things easily and dont tell me whats wrong when I try to speak with him. These past weeks were worst, I was cooking in the kitchen and left pasta for a few seconds on low temperature and he came to the kitchen and started yelling at me "you are so stupid you have zero cooking skills'' even tho pasta was fine. The other day he started chasing me in the room and I accidentally fell on the table with drinks. I hurt my knee and finger and he started shouting at me again and calling me f*cking retard. I felt really bad so I immediately started cleaning everything and he grabbed the cloth and vacuum cleaner from me and started cleaning by himself and he said that I am too stupid to be able to clean up. There were more things like these happened and I dont think I will be able to stay with him any longer. I like him and I respect him however I dont feel the same from him, even tho he tells me that he likes me. He criticize everything I do, I am never good enough and my self esteem dropped even more since I was never really confident person. Do you think I should leave him or try to improve myself to make him happier? Leave now and never look back. 1
phalgal Posted November 25, 2015 Posted November 25, 2015 He is abusive and will probably start hitting you if you don't get out now. Please leave, you don't deserve a jerk like him.
LostOnes05 Posted November 26, 2015 Posted November 26, 2015 So this guy calls you stupid, a f*cking retard and criticizes everything you do...but you like and respect him?? Damn, I was doing things all wrong. I guess being respectful, holding doors open for your SO, and being helpful went out the window. Anyway, I digress...YOU NEED TO LEAVE HIM IMMEDIATELY (ALL CAPS).
mightycpa Posted November 26, 2015 Posted November 26, 2015 I'm curious what it is about you that you have to ask about this. I mean, if you take yourself out of the situation, and you read this about two strangers, you'd know exactly what should be done. So why does putting you in this story make the answer different, rather than accelerate the outcome? THAT is what you need to work on right after you lose this loser.
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