Stretch127 Posted November 25, 2015 Posted November 25, 2015 Im in a confusing situation here. Were both in the same classes and this girl and I have this thing going on where in any normal situation you would think that two people obviously like eachother. Shes 29 on her grown woman status and im only 20 so that age gap though. She started talking to me first, that typical flirty shoulder nudge first, and even told me to sit next to her in class after a while. So overall she approached me first and now were pretty much hanging off eachother all day being disgustingly mushy. So where im confused is that texting this woman is damn near non existent minus a handful of times. Ill text her and maybe get 1 or 2 replies IF she replies. She has even text me first, i reply, then bam thats it nothing. Now shes constantly getting notifications with her group text and online stuff so I can see how I could get lost in the shuffle. Though I assume if you like someone youd want to at least talk to them even if theres this age gap. Usually if someone doesnt seem interested you can get the hint and move on. But this woman has put her hair in a certain way because I said I liked it, has gone out of her way to drive me home, constantly gazes at me like she has a staring problem, constantly touching on her in ways platonic friends do not operate, and all this other stuff. Ive been on a girls hook before that just wanted me to give her attention and this isnt like that situation. Face to face is absolutely fantastic. Its literally just texting her is the worst thing ever. So ive decided that im about to just start calling that ass. Any feedback on this? Thoughts, comments, concerns on this story of mine thats way too long.
ravfour4 Posted November 25, 2015 Posted November 25, 2015 My guess: Either she's not super interested right now (I don't think most 29 year old women prefer 20 year old men) or she plans to use you for emotional support or a booty call, on her terms. She's probably enjoying the attention and seeing it as a game, telling her friends about this young guy who's obsessed with her. If she's texting others often but texting you like this, that is likely what's happening. It's rare that in person and via text legitimately vary so much, some on here tried to convince me this was true of my ex, but it wasn't - her uninterested texts were a signal of her disinterest. Women think differently when they're alone than when you're with them and wooing them. 1
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