YoYo23 Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 He is sick, I was there for him through some of the most stressful times of his life, I was there for him when he complained about his horrible ex who broke his heart 2 years ago. We were best friends for a year, a couple for two month, he cheated during that last month of our relationship with his "horrible ex". He actually admitted it, and asked me to forgive him one day. He went to my cousin and told him how he never really loved me but started to develop feelings for his "horrible ex". he then told me he will be just friends (evidence proved otherwise). A week ago he asked me to give him a chance to talk about what happened. I refused because I can't bare to hear him admit it again. So I blocked him. Question is: why does he wanna talk about it after he cheated? Why has he been keeping tabs on me through my friends' fb profiles and snapchat? Was I wrong for not giving him a chance to talk? Was I not supposed to block him completely?
TaraMaiden2 Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 ....Question is: why does he wanna talk about it after he cheated? To make himself feel better and relieve his guilt. It's for his benefit, not yours. Why has he been keeping tabs on me through my friends' fb profiles and snapchat? Because he wants to keep a hold on you. If he keeps tabs on you, he can pretend he's still important to you (as you know about his snooping and keeping tabs). Was I wrong for not giving him a chance to talk? No. Was I not supposed to block him completely?Yes you were. (That's 5 questions....) 2
walkingonair Posted November 25, 2015 Posted November 25, 2015 I know what you're going through. My ex didn't cheat with his ex but had feelings for her while dating me. I'm ignoring him and not talking to him anymore. He has initiated contact a few times but I've ignored. And you are doing an awesome job by ignoring! You don't need a man who has another woman on his mind!!! You need to be a guys one and only!!!! Don't respond to him, hu just wants to know that he has you.
Male2.0 Posted November 25, 2015 Posted November 25, 2015 (edited) I think its a red flag when people complain a lot about their ex during a new relationship. Every new relationship I've ever had I never complained how my ex did this, or said that, my mind was on the woman I was dating, not my ex. I think the guy was using his ex as a sympathy card, and he'll probably do it again with his next victim, complaining about issues he had when he dated you. Edited November 25, 2015 by Male2.0
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