lilnomar33 Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 Me and my girlfriend were together for 5 year's and she finally called it quits on us. Been broken up for 5 months now and she told me yesterday why she ended. For her it was a deadline in her head no ring so no more told me she got sick of waiting for me to marry her. I know most of you are going to say that I should have applied NC and begin to move forward with my life but it wasn't possible as we have a kid together but to me it was a good that she told me cause I feel it brings closer to the relationship. I'll share with you some context as to why I never asked her to marry me around the 3 year mark I was ready to marry her but I found out that she was emotionally cheating on me with another guy. Long story short I forgive her but I will never forget it so with that in mind pull back that big commitment with her. Things between us were getting better and around towards the last 6 months of our relationship with her she was sending a lot of messages about finally us getting married and told her give me some time but unfortunately in those 6 months it reach her deadline of no return. Just wanted to share my story to help me move forward because I really did love her... Also not even a week after we broke up i had a really bad health problem that required emergency surgery so I was a emotional wreck for months and I think maybe that's why I needed to know why it end between us.. Just one question why do some people put a deadline on marriage or the door? I just don't get it.
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