GuskeGee Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 Question to all the women here! Can women deliberately hold back because they are afraid they might fall too much in love when the person they have feelings for is living abroad and/or shows mixed signs of interest? What I mean is - can girls pull back to protect their heart because they are afraid to get hurt?
Jimmyjackson Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 Question to all the women here! Can women deliberately hold back because they are afraid they might fall too much in love when the person they have feelings for is living abroad and/or shows mixed signs of interest? What I mean is - can girls pull back to protect their heart because they are afraid to get hurt? I'm not a woman but If I had feelings for someone who lived abroad I'd probably leave it alone, there's long distance then there's long distance. It's difficult to maintain something when you don't live near one another and if you both work full time etc.
Michelle ma Belle Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 Yes we can. It's called self preservation. Everyone is guilty of doing this at some point in their lives. 2
Redhead14 Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 Question to all the women here! Can women deliberately hold back because they are afraid they might fall too much in love when the person they have feelings for is living abroad and/or shows mixed signs of interest? What I mean is - can girls pull back to protect their heart because they are afraid to get hurt? can girls pull back to protect their heart because they are afraid to get hurt? -- I guess you are new here and haven't read the many, many posts from other people who've experienced pulling away by people they've been dating . . . happens all the time. However, it's not always because they are afraid of being hurt. Sometimes, they're losing interest, sometimes they're experiencing something else that's causing them stress and they are unable to focus on a relationship, sometimes it's because there's too much distance and the relationship can't be maintained properly anyway. Bottomline is if they are pulling away, you let them have the space and keep moving with your own life. When they sort things out for themselves and if they are still invested in you enough, they'll be back. If they don't, so be it. There isn't anything you can do unless they specifically tell you what they need from you if anything. And, it's not just women who do this. Men do it too and more often. 1
BlueIris Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 Question to all the women here! Can women deliberately hold back because they are afraid they might fall too much in love when the person they have feelings for is living abroad and/or shows mixed signs of interest? What I mean is - can girls pull back to protect their heart because they are afraid to get hurt? Sure, people "can hold back" for any number of reasons. Fear isn't the only possible reason. Some relationships aren't workable no matter how wonderful the other person is or how much you love the other person. 1
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