Jesse101 Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 I've been seeing this girl that I work with for about a week. We have been hanging out almost every night sense we have been talking. She says that she likes me and she wants a relationship with me and that she likes being with me.. But there is a problem.. I always feel as if I'm losing her. I have no idea why and I have never felt this way before.. She always tells me not worry but I can't find it in me to just trust her words.. It may be the fact that she wants to take things slow and not rush into anything but I'm not sure... I mean I have no reason not to believe it.. We have been on six dates and I kissed her just the other night.. I hate this feeling and I wish I could just believe her... I really need advice. I want to keep going with her but I can't stand this doubtful feeling..
Ic1 Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 It's been only a week? Sounds like your being a young worry-wart. 1
Author Jesse101 Posted November 24, 2015 Author Posted November 24, 2015 It's been only a week? Sounds like your being a young worry-wart. Honestly... I am.
Michelle ma Belle Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 Oh my goodness. You need to get a life my friend. Keep this up and you're not only going to drive yourself mental but you'll chase her away before anything gets going. Is that what you want? Relax for heaven's sake. It's only be a bloody week!
Redhead14 Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 I've been seeing this girl that I work with for about a week. We have been hanging out almost every night sense we have been talking. She says that she likes me and she wants a relationship with me and that she likes being with me.. But there is a problem.. I always feel as if I'm losing her. I have no idea why and I have never felt this way before.. She always tells me not worry but I can't find it in me to just trust her words.. It may be the fact that she wants to take things slow and not rush into anything but I'm not sure... I mean I have no reason not to believe it.. We have been on six dates and I kissed her just the other night.. I hate this feeling and I wish I could just believe her... I really need advice. I want to keep going with her but I can't stand this doubtful feeling.. I can't find it in me to just trust her words.. -- Maybe it's because you've only been seeing her for a WEEK!!! Trust is earned established over a period of time and most certainly longer than a week. Get a grip man. We have been on six dates -- she wants a relationship with me -- Ok, spend more time together, keep it balanced and paced comfortably and continue to observe whether there is actually enough there between the two of you for a relationship to develop. Comfortably paced doesn't include seeing each other every single night either. That is too much time to spent together this soon. Spread the "dates" out. It will burn out quickly.
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