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We never talked in high school until half way through senior year. Then we started texting a lot, but we never really hung out accept when we were in groups and she showed no particular interest in me specifically. Then I told her she should come to the college I was going to and in the end that's what she decided to do. Now we do everything together and don't really hangout with many other people. I like her more than a friend but I have no clue how she feels. On the one hand, we do things that make me think she likes me. For example, we slept (separately) on top of the parking garage one night and talked. I'm teaching her to play guitar and we practice up there too. She pretend hits me a lot. She tells me everything, like really personal stuff, and is always asking me questions about myself too. Among other things. But then on the other hand, she has a decent amount of guy friends and not many female friends. Her best friend is a girl though. She once said, "I feel bad for the person who marries you." And even though it wasn't said in a super mean way, she didn't sound like she was joking exactly either. It also takes her a long time to respond to text messages and sometimes it almost seems like she doesn't want the conversation to continue. Also, when people "tease" us about dating, she brushes it off very quickly. But then again, I do the same thing. So I don't know if I should ask her out, just tell her I like her but understand if she just wants to be friends, or try and continue telling her I like her through my actions, or just wait a while. Also, I did something I guess you would call "thoughtful" and she told me I was the "sweetest guy ever". What does that mean?

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the way she brushes off jokes about you two dating, it almost seems as if she is miffed about it because even after all her hints you have not made a move yet.

 

I just hope your window of opportunity has not closed.

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Well she needs to know that you like her.

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