st8toftheheart Posted May 28, 2005 Posted May 28, 2005 Originally posted by sarah12 I figured that guys who are looking for a girlfriend would probably not want a girl who's had more sexual experiences than they have and are open with their sexuality. You can put me in the NO column on this one. Call it jealousy or insecurity if you wish, but I think there are alot of guys who would prefer same or less. For me there are too many questions when a women has more experiences that I. Why did she, how did it occur, where. And its really none of my business, so rather sit and dwell I don't even bother. Call it growing up Catholic and being married for 10 years with only 2 relationships previous to that in my entire life. I'll say it again. Life molds us, experiences shape us.
st8toftheheart Posted May 28, 2005 Posted May 28, 2005 Originally posted by Merin I had a relationship with a Guy for 2 years that was like this He was all about being crazy with sex BUT at the same time it pissed him off.. He loved that I was comfortable with my body BUT at the same time it pissed him off.. He loved that I was down for trying new things with him BUT at the same time it pissed him off.. I'm having deja vu. My ex said the same thing about me. But both you and her were right. Yet, I am not movtivated to change that. Mind you I don't know about your ex, but I had signficantly less dating and sexual experience than her. So for me it may have been a jealousy insecurity thing at work.
LucreziaBorgia Posted May 28, 2005 Posted May 28, 2005 A guy likes a sexually adventurous girl in the bedroom, but the the more insecure he is about himself the more he is likely to interpret your 'willingness to learn new things' as the result of previous experience. If you are sexually adventurous and get into all sorts of kinky stuff with him and he's fairly secure with himself, he won't think you are slutty unless you happen to share those adventures with someone else.
westernxer Posted May 28, 2005 Posted May 28, 2005 Originally posted by LucreziaBorgia A guy likes a sexually adventurous girl in the bedroom, but the the more insecure he is about himself the more he is likely to interpret your 'willingness to learn new things' as the result of previous experience. If you are sexually adventurous and get into all sorts of kinky stuff with him and he's fairly secure with himself, he won't think you are slutty unless you happen to share those adventures with someone else. Bingo!
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