Mld Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 Hello, went on a 2nd date with a girl last night. We had an overall fun time, laughed and kissed but I was exahusted during the date and didn't feel like I was on my A game. So I walked away with that bad sinking gut feeling that I blew it. Anyway, about 20 minutes after I dropped her off at the bus station she sends me a text (it was pretty chilly outside): "I think I've turned into a frozen sculpture...bus delay." So I am curious to hear your opinions - would a girl even bother to text a guy after a date if she wasn't interested in seeing him again? Is this a good sign? Thanks!
Oregon_Dude Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 "Ha! Get warm soon. I had fun with you - let's do it again next ______!" Then you'll find out if you've been f-z'ed.
hippychick3 Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 It sounds like an invitation to come back to the station and take her home rather than leave her waiting for the delayed bus. Her text indicates interest.
Oregon_Dude Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 It sounds like an invitation to come back to the station and take her home rather than leave her waiting for the delayed bus.Uh, no. She can ASK for a ride if that's the case, instead of making the man read her mind. If he asks to give her a ride, he's "creepy".
ravfour4 Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 Agree with above, she would think that's creepy or too overbearing at this point. She is interested in you and wants to keep talking to you, so she texted you something witty about her current situation. It's an invitation to continue contact
Wewon Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 It doesn't sound bad. But honestly who knows. You have to ask her out again.
Erik30 Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 Yeah it's a good sign! It shows she (still) likes to talk to you. If she wasn't interested anymore after the date, she would just be glad that it was over. She would probably be texting one of her friends instead of you if that was the case.
hippychick3 Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 Uh, no. She can ASK for a ride if that's the case, instead of making the man read her mind. If he asks to give her a ride, he's "creepy". I was NOT suggesting he should have read her mind and gone back to pick her up. I was merely giving my interpretation of her text and commenting that it indicates interest on her part.
Oregon_Dude Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 I was NOT suggesting he should have read her mind and gone back to pick her up. I was merely giving my interpretation of her text and commenting that it indicates interest on her part.Your interpretation was that it was a *hint* that he should pick her up. But yeah, I agree, it's better than "I had fun, but I'm not feeling a connection".
hippychick3 Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 Your interpretation was that it was a *hint* that he should pick her up. But yeah, I agree, it's better than "I had fun, but I'm not feeling a connection". Yes. That was my interpretation. Whether or not he should have picked her up is not relevant... Just the fact that my interpretation means some kind of interest. I know I wouldn't want a guy coming back to pick me up if I never wanted to see him again.
Rydo Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 I agree with hippychick, I would have offered her a lift.
adiamond Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 I've done this before, and I was interested.
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