garfield1982 Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 OK so my previous thread has made sense and I am taking all of this onboard. I have been seeing him now for 8 weeks this week and we have been getting on great and have a good laugh when we're out. I have pulled him up on his use of Grindr and his lack of info on his profile. He says thats just because of work and he's only on it for chat. Note I have only kept mine and going on it to see how often he is on (a tad neurotic I know). I don't know if I believe him after the kiss with the friend he was out with the other week (that he still doesn't know I know about). On the back of that after he text good night last night he was still active on Grindr, Watsapp and Facebook for around an hour on and off and when I sort of mentioned it today he told me that he went to sleep after texting me and that his battery went from 33% to 1% almost immediately and his phone switched off... he then said that his phone locked him in everything. I don't even think this is possible so is this more proof he is lying or can that sort of thing happen? I'm so hurt as I have properly fallen for him and thought we had a future together but I am seriously doubting everything now . I just wish I could see his phone and texts etc Am I really going to have to end this?:(
smackie9 Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 When a person offers more info as to why, it's most likely a ruse to cover up their lie. If his actions don't match his words then there is no need to look at his phone and texts.
PegNosePete Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 He says thats just because of work and he's only on it for chat. If you believe this then I have a bridge to sell you. Am I really going to have to end this?:( No you don't have to. If you prefer you can stay with a lying, cheating douchebag. Up to you! 2
Redhead14 Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 OK so my previous thread has made sense and I am taking all of this onboard. I have been seeing him now for 8 weeks this week and we have been getting on great and have a good laugh when we're out. I have pulled him up on his use of Grindr and his lack of info on his profile. He says thats just because of work and he's only on it for chat. Note I have only kept mine and going on it to see how often he is on (a tad neurotic I know). I don't know if I believe him after the kiss with the friend he was out with the other week (that he still doesn't know I know about). On the back of that after he text good night last night he was still active on Grindr, Watsapp and Facebook for around an hour on and off and when I sort of mentioned it today he told me that he went to sleep after texting me and that his battery went from 33% to 1% almost immediately and his phone switched off... he then said that his phone locked him in everything. I don't even think this is possible so is this more proof he is lying or can that sort of thing happen? I'm so hurt as I have properly fallen for him and thought we had a future together but I am seriously doubting everything now . I just wish I could see his phone and texts etc Am I really going to have to end this?:( It's only been two months with this guy and there's all this going on? End it now. And, you thought you had a future with him after two months? You were too invested in him too soon. 1
Empyrea Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 Is his phone more than 2 years old? Mine is, and now regularly shuts down from anything below 37% ... So yeah, technically possible. But practically, this: When a person offers more info as to why, it's most likely a ruse to cover up their lie. 1
Author garfield1982 Posted November 24, 2015 Author Posted November 24, 2015 Update from last night... we had a great night and things were awesome until this morning when he was in the shower his phone goes with a message saying 'Still on for Sunday night dinner? x' from the guy I had concerns about. He doesn't know I say the alert and I've been playing him at his own games today saying I've booked us a table for Sunday night just me and him. He's since started saying ah yeah I'm meeting with 'XXXXX' for dinner as he's through for the night after saying last night 'Your going to hate me but we're going for Lunch now on Sunday with my pal and then if it's OK I'll just go home as I'll need to get sleep and recover from the weekend'. I've now offered his 'pal' to come too and if he takes me up on it when we're at the place I'll make a comment on how good a couple they'll make and walk out leaving both them stranded as I'll be driving. I'm done now (((((((((((((
PegNosePete Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 Stop playing silly games and just dump him already.
Ic1 Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 Am I really going to have to end this?:( How many times do you have to ask? The answer is in your previous threads.
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