leslee Posted May 27, 2005 Posted May 27, 2005 i have been talking to this guy for about 7 months. we spend time together at my house and we get along very well. before me and him started talking he was in a 7 year relationship and it just didnt work out. well me and him talk on the phone and see eachother alot. but when i want us to go out and do something besides sit at my house he doesnt want to. i have talked to him about being a little bit more serious but he tells me that the timing is not right and we should get to know eachother more. he has applied to alot of different schools around that world and doesnt know where he is going yet. he tells me this is one reason why he doesnt want to get serious with me because he doesnt know where he is moving. i dont know if this is ever going to be something more than what it is even though that is what i want the most. when we go out together he doesnt kiss me as much and he doesnt act like we are "together". he does tell me that he likes me alot and he wishes he could be with me the way he wants to but he cant. is this a excuse to keep me quiet or does he really want something in the furture.........help!
DesertDweller Posted May 29, 2005 Posted May 29, 2005 I don't know what he's thinking--if he's still hung up on his ex, if he just wants to be friends, if he's afraid of committing right now--who knows? But I think I would play hard-to-get. Let him see what it's like to be without you. I know it'll be hard, but it just might work. Nothing else is working, right? Might as well try it. Good luck!
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