Flozfzx Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 Why do ex's reach out when your feeling good after a break up? Is cause they feel miresable so they want to make you feel bad? My ex reach out randomly and told me how im a dog and still the same person that i havent change. She saw a picture on instagram of me dancing with another women. I just responded that 'hey im single' she texted me back in telling me that shes really moving on from her current boyfriend thats shes currectly in now that the picture she saw hurts. I told her you been saying that for 9 months you want me to wait for you while i have my thumb up my ass no! She text me again mention that shes sorry about the break up and want us back but shes still in a relationship that shes working to get out. I told her to do what she needs to do and ill do whats best for me. But this is way too long and to give me space and respect while shes with another man.
Wewon Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 I'm assuming that she initiated the break up? The reason that this is important is because it means the difference between seeing you dancing with another woman as twisting the knife VS her simply being self-absorbed. What you described sounds like a combination of hurt and childishness. Sort of the 'discarded toy' syndrome that you see with kids, they get rid of a toy and want it back the minute someone else starts to enjoy it. I'd say that you should block her (I don't know if that's possible) because she seems to want the power to reel you in at will and is upset that you're moving on means that her back burner option is no longer there.
PegNosePete Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 shes still in a relationship that shes working to get out Let me tell you something here. It's not difficult to get out of a relationship. How difficult was it for her to dump you? One does not need to work to get out of a relationship. One simply says, "you're dumped". If she really wanted to end her relationship to be with you, then she would have done it yesterday. She's feeding you a line. Why? I have no idea. Some people juggle geese. BLOCK her. 2
Author Flozfzx Posted November 23, 2015 Author Posted November 23, 2015 The last text she send me was "My mom agrees with my decision" (of coming back) "I know your not available to text. I explain more when I put my action in place." I was going to text her back "blah blah blah blah" but i didnt i just ignored her. Shes a weak person and cant communicate properly thats why we had problems. I took her for granted in our relationship and it was my fault that led to the break but she could have communicated that she was unhappy as a partner and not get with another guy then want me back.
Simon Phoenix Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 I don't understand why a) you respond to this and b) you don't have this person blocked. The question you should be asking is not why she does why she does, but why you continuously enable and feed it. 1
Kehv Posted November 24, 2015 Posted November 24, 2015 She's either just checking up on you if you're still interested in her (ego boost) or she's really interested. The only way to tell is if she dumps the new guy and comes begging at your door. I wish that would happen to me someday.
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