melissak Posted May 27, 2005 Posted May 27, 2005 Today is the saddest day in my life... two years ago, my x and i were heading the green port to have a mini vacation, and that was the first time we made love and the first time he told me he loved me.... two years later, i know he is having a trip with his new girlfriend on this beautiful day... my heart, my heart is bleeding... After all those horrible things he did to me, he is still in mind constantly... (see : i am like a used toilet paper) "I tried to drown my sorrows, but my sorrows, they learned how to swim"
htinulas Posted May 27, 2005 Posted May 27, 2005 Well although you're feeling really crummy right now believe me, it will past. I felt SO BADLY when my ex and I were divorced and he had his new girlfriend I never thought I would get over it........cried all the time. Now, several years later it is like nothing - actualy I chat with him from time to time and the crappy feelings and feelings of dispair have all subsided. They say time heals all, and although it's really hard to believe right now, it is true. I really liked the quote at the end !!
ReluctantRomeo Posted May 27, 2005 Posted May 27, 2005 Melissak, I'm so sorry. This sucks. Chin up - it will pass. It will be painful in the meantime, but it will pass.
st8toftheheart Posted May 27, 2005 Posted May 27, 2005 You need to move on. You admit that he treated you so badly, butyou continue to pine for him. You focus on the goodtimes, but totally ignore the bad? If you really need motivation, just think of the abuse you took, and think how he is doing that to the new person. But you don't need that type of motivation. You need to move on.
vivian Posted May 27, 2005 Posted May 27, 2005 I thank you for all these notes... sometimes, i think in the same way... but sometimes I just can not help thinking about the good time we had... and the sad thing is: i will never see him again... a man who once was so close to you is just gone for ever... that is the hardest part
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