JohnDellano Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 I have been texting this HB10 for a while trying to set up a date. She was always playing hard to get and saying she was hesitant to meet. One day when I was fed up with her attitude I froze her out and ten days later she talked to me. Then she talked again one week later and I decided to ask her out again for a lunch date. I told her I would call her in the morning to confirm where we should meet and she agreed. She didnt say anything in the morning. I had friends in my house though so I had brunch with them and didn’t call her in the morning. I texted her at 1pm and then this is our convo : - Hey, sorry, I just got out of a brunch with my friends HB: - OH it is okay I went on a date with some european painters Then she sends me a pic of a Metropolitan Museum ticket (I live in NYC) and a selfie of her with a van Gogh painting. I texted her at 1:04 pm and she had bought the ticket at 12.54 pm which means she decided to go the museum even before I had said anything. Then she kept talking about the museum, I was pissed she had gone somewhere else, but I asked her if she was enjoying it and she said "Yeah but I gotta run, I will be meeting a friend for.coffee in.a few hours". I said "ok. Have fun and enjoy" and she said "sure! Thank you so much. You have a jipe day!" I am mad that she had gone to the museum. Also mad that me cancelling the date meant nothing to her. Do you think she was really interested? Do you think she would have flaked? Should I ask her out again?
truth_seeker Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 She's playing games. Don't talk to her anymore.
GingerVixen Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 She's playing games. Don't talk to her anymore. I disagree. She was not playing games, he was. He said he would call her in the morning to confirm the date. He didnt.I believe she just assumed he would flake and then she decided to do something else. OP you're a jerk. If i were that girl I would have done the same thing. 5
ravfour4 Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 Haha have to agree with Ginger. You saying you'd call, then not calling clearly showed you weren't interested, you were trying to pull a fast one on her and gauge her interest. Then, she didn't bite so you texted her and then your ego took a hit when you found out she wasn't that bothered and now you're mad. She clearly is interested otherwise she wouldn't have continued to talk to you after you essentially ditched her 1
callingyouuu Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 I disagree. She was not playing games, he was. He said he would call her in the morning to confirm the date. He didnt.I believe she just assumed he would flake and then she decided to do something else. I agree. Also, set the details when you ask her out, not the morning of the date. I'm a guy, but if I were her, I would have made other plans as well if I didn't hear anything because my time is valuable.
GingerVixen Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 Haha have to agree with Ginger. You saying you'd call, then not calling clearly showed you weren't interested, you were trying to pull a fast one on her and gauge her interest. Then, she didn't bite so you texted her and then your ego took a hit when you found out she wasn't that bothered and now you're mad. She clearly is interested otherwise she wouldn't have continued to talk to you after you essentially ditched her Totally agree!! But I Dont even think she is interested anymore... She seems to be a very high value girl who is polite no matter if you flake or not. She kept talking because she is polite IMO
truth_seeker Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 I disagree. She was not playing games, he was. He said he would call her in the morning to confirm the date. He didnt.I believe she just assumed he would flake and then she decided to do something else. OP you're a jerk. If i were that girl I would have done the same thing. You're right. I over looked that detail. I read the part where he said he didn't hear from her in the morning, so he didn't call. My error was he said he would call her in the morning but because he expected to hear from her for some reason in the morning and didn't, he chose not to call her till later. She was playing games, though. It was just her sticking it to him for not calling like he promised he would.
GingerVixen Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 You're right. I over looked that detail. I read the part where he said he didn't hear from her in the morning, so he didn't call. My error was he said he would call her in the morning but because he expected to hear from her for some reason in the morning and didn't, he chose not to call her till later. She was playing games, though. It was just her sticking it to him for not calling like he promised he would. Why should she have called him in the morning if he said HE would call her? unless he is an attention whore he shouldn't have expected her to call if he promised to call
truth_seeker Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 Why should she have called him in the morning if he said HE would call her? unless he is an attention whore he shouldn't have expected her to call if he promised to call I don't get it either. Maybe he's a sociopath? 1
GingerVixen Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 I don't get it either. Maybe he's a sociopath? Pretty much IMO. OP I am sorry but I wouldnt ask her out again because you ruined your chances. You called her at the last minute. If you wanted to spend time with your friends you should have had the decency to call her in the morning and tell her. And perhaps reschedule. You would do that for a co worker or your boss. You should do the same for the women you want to.date
ravfour4 Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 Haha I think you can tell by him saying she's a HB 10 that this dude is a bit of a player, he must pull this trick on girls often, the ol' devalue them so they think you're above them evil trick
ExpatInItaly Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 OP, you shot yourself in the foot. You said you'd call in the morning and you didn't. She did what any self-respecting girl would do and made other plans. You dropped the ball and I think it's a little ironic that you're upset. Next time, call when you said you would. Period.
CC12 Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 I am mad that she had gone to the museum. Also mad that me cancelling the date meant nothing to her. There's really something off about your way of thinking. You're mad that she didn't wait around for you when you didn't even call to set up the date? You expected a girl you don't know to give you a more emotional reaction to you cancelling on her? I mean, really, where do you come off cancelling a date in such a clumsy, callous way and then being mad at her? You're the one in the wrong. My advice is to stop expecting people to act in any certain way and to stop reading whatever it was that taught you the term "HB10." It's a ridiculous way to refer to human beings and it doesn't do you any favors. Stay away from that.
Empyrea Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 I don't get it either. Maybe he's a sociopath? Read some of his other threads, OP is severely insecure and controlling and trying to mask it by imagining himself to be the ultimate player. PUT DOWN THE PICKUP ARTIST HANDBOOK! In fact, lose the whole concept of "playing someone" from your vocabulary, develop some real self-esteem, and maybe you'll actually get a girlfriend one day. You people disgust me. 2
travelbug1996 Posted November 25, 2015 Posted November 25, 2015 ^^^^^^yea what they said. You are a cornball who won't ever get laid at the rate you're going. Go back and read your own threads. Absolutely pathetic.:lmao::lmao:
IronZ Posted November 26, 2015 Posted November 26, 2015 I'm confused.. your conversations are basically you telling her what you're doing and her doing the same. I didn't see either of you ask each other out anywhere. I see that you told her you'd call and you didn't. What exactly did she do wrong?
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