bbn254 Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 Ok so I met this women a couple of weeks ago. We exchanged numbers and have been talking ever since. We have went on a dinner date and a lunch date so far. She's told me that she gave me her number for the fact I was a gentleman when approaching her and wasn't acting like someone I wasnt. But conversation between use seem effortless recently I asked why she doesn't text first and she explained she doesn't want her emotions to geti nvolved yet because she's been burned before and wants to make sure that someone is genuine and down. Which I understand. So more recently she's made efforts to text first and even the other day she texted good morning which was a first. She has mentioned me to some work friends in the fact that her and her computer worker were talking about new guys they meet and etc. So again recently we talked about being interested in each other and she said she was because I cute and gentlemen etc. But then hits me with a hard right by saying she not looking to be committed yet right now but in the future there's a possibility. So I'm asking what advice if anybody has any what does all this mean. I'm not pressing the issue of a relationship I'm sure I'd want one eventually. But what should I do?
d0nnivain Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 It's positive but she's wary because she has been burned in the past. Keep being yourself (a good guy) to eventually earn her trust.
Male Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 Yep, as the guy you are supposed to tag along while she either leads you on, or "figures out" what the hell she wants. Women love to keep guys in a fog. They will say one thing then change it a few days later and totally contradict it, but they still want to hang out with you. Some women do this on purpose, and some dont even realize the mixed signals they are giving.
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