gh5091 Posted November 22, 2015 Posted November 22, 2015 So my ex and I broke up this past week (over text) because we're just too different (we were good friends for 6 years prior) He felt like he wasn't good enough (his own insecurities I think) and even though I tried to convince him that it wasn't true he wouldn't budge. He had my sunglasses and I knew we were to see each other at an event days later, I texted him twice to bring it (knowing it's the last thing that ties us together) - got to the event and he said he forgot and "will bring it to my house in the week" Later in the night, we did not bring up the break up but I asked him in my tipsy state to come over and he said no because he apparently cares too much but he decided to give me his hat right there as "an excuse to see him again" He then texted me at 3am asking if I left the place and why did I ask him to come home with him.. The next day he texted me again saying thank you for taking his cap home with him and I asked if it was sarcasm and he said no. I apologized if I made him feel uncomfortable by asking him to come home and the sexual comments and he said he didn't feel uncomfortable. I know I have to see him this week to do the exchange but I am very confused with everything. What can I do?! We're supposed to be "friends" and I do want to be with him.
marky00 Posted November 22, 2015 Posted November 22, 2015 He felt like he wasn't good enough (his own insecurities I think) and even though I tried to convince him that it wasn't true he wouldn't budge. Hmmm, I dont think too many people would end a relationship because they don't think they are good enough. People dont leave pople who they see as better than themselves. Sounds more like an excuse to get out of the relationship. As to what to do now.. as hard is its going to be.. is go NC and drop of the side of the earth for as long as you can. This will give you best chance of him coming out of his hole and confessing his feelings (if they exist). The upside is ... if he you dont hear from him again, you keep ur dignity and you were on the way to recovery because you had already started your NC.
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