wakamiya Posted May 27, 2005 Posted May 27, 2005 Dating is not something I really want. There's this guy (just about every stories intro) I really him like and I have for about a year... we tried to date once and it went badly. We drifted and got back into the friendship thing in 3 months, and we're ok now. In fact much better than ever before. What'd I'd like to know is, do you guys and girls despise it when you don't know if the other person likes you or not? I could ask him, but I want to wait it out? He plays mind games with me and it's soo obvious sometimes! And I hate confronting him about these things because in my very first relationship I screwed up bad...(everything was upfront and we got bored of each other!) If I don't ask him, I'll worry he'll have lost interest in me.. is the worrying worth it? I don't want to make the same mistake twice. I hope this makes sense.
LucreziaBorgia Posted May 27, 2005 Posted May 27, 2005 In a case like this, its better to just have and enjoy your relationship instead of questioning it to death or attempting to hold it down and force a label on it. Let things happen naturally between you two. Trust me, if he's interested and you are hanging around - he won't lose interest simply because you aren't 'discussing it'. He's watching your actions right now, and I'm sure you are letting him know how you feel without saying a word about it. If he starts avoiding you, or suddenly being 'busy', or is short with you, or is dating someone else - then you can start to worry.
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