PogoStick Posted November 22, 2015 Posted November 22, 2015 It's annoying how girls think they need to insert themselves into relationship drama to save women they've never met. I have never seen a guy warn a strange man that his girl is cheating unless it was his close friend. Once, I was fingering a girl on the dance floor (she had initially approached me too)...until her boyfriend came and led her away! I just laughed and enjoyed myself, thinking "oh that poor dude"! 2
Author Grape lemon Posted November 22, 2015 Author Posted November 22, 2015 It's annoying how girls think they need to insert themselves into relationship drama to save women they've never met. I have never seen a guy warn a strange man that his girl is cheating unless it was his close friend. Once, I was fingering a girl on the dance floor (she had initially approached me too)...until her boyfriend came and led her away! I just laughed and enjoyed myself, thinking "oh that poor dude"! I dont intend on telling the girlfriend. Was a suggestion my friend made because she said she would want to know if it was her.
Zippy2000 Posted November 22, 2015 Posted November 22, 2015 This is important why some women shouldn't give themselves away too soon and have sex with men when you first meet. Its also important to say not all men cheat. Find out what time of men are hitting on you. There's always a reason why a man wants to be so friendly with you and as a woman you need to find out what his !otive is. Is it sex Is it a not if fun Scamming for money Just being friendly Is he a serial killer rapist A relationship With new people you meet. Treat them as a stranger and stay safe until you find out what they want.
PogoStick Posted November 22, 2015 Posted November 22, 2015 I dont intend on telling the girlfriend. Was a suggestion my friend made because she said she would want to know if it was her. And I was referring to your friend, not you. 1
ravfour4 Posted November 22, 2015 Posted November 22, 2015 It surprises me how many women are unfaithful....most of my and my friend's relationships ended with them being unfaithful. Then again, most of my male friends have also been unfaithful. Seems like most don't like monogamy
smackie9 Posted November 22, 2015 Posted November 22, 2015 Well Smackie, I suggest you get off your high horse and stop trying to pick apart my post to try and be blunt and rude. I never said that its just guys that are unfaithful, as I am a straight female, my recent experience has suprised me with the amount of guys who are unfaithful. If I was a lesbian I'd probably care more about how many girls are unfaithful. I'm also not looking for a boyfriend, please feel free to show me in my post where I said that If I'm going out with my friends, sometimes I will meet guys. I don't go out looking for a date I'm going out for a good time with my friends. I've also met nice guys out at bars and pubs, so again you are wrong. Please refrain from commenting on my post again. Cheers You just fluttered around with two guys...does that mean so many guys are unfaithful?? no it does not. You just got unlucky. Why do people cheat? People cheat for many different reasons. Young guys? I'm guessing they are just being horn dogs. If you are just out for fun, then who cares if they have a GF...you have no interest in investing in them anyways. This is something you have no control over.....If it bothers you, maybe get their FB before you hit the dance floor with them.
smackie9 Posted November 22, 2015 Posted November 22, 2015 ***Just think how hard it was when there was no internet/social media......been there done that. Your generation is lucky to have this at your disposal to weed out the crap. 1
Raena Posted November 22, 2015 Posted November 22, 2015 What I don't understand is why a guy would ask to be fb friends with you if they knew their fb shows that they are in a relationship... after making out with you and making it seem like they are interested in you. You'd think they wouldn't want you to see that, or that their gf would wonder why they are friending other women after going out to the bar. Makes no sense, none of it does. Kids these days... 3
smackie9 Posted November 22, 2015 Posted November 22, 2015 It's very possible they are in a open relationship. I knew quite a few couples that had this arrangement. So in a "relationship" doesn't always mean a monogamous one.
Ruby Slippers Posted November 22, 2015 Posted November 22, 2015 I also used to be very naive about human nature. I assumed that because I've never cheated and couldn't look at myself in the mirror if I did, most others must be just like me. Ha! I've been surprised to learn how many men and women cheat and lie. 3
Author Grape lemon Posted November 23, 2015 Author Posted November 23, 2015 What I don't understand is why a guy would ask to be fb friends with you if they knew their fb shows that they are in a relationship... after making out with you and making it seem like they are interested in you. You'd think they wouldn't want you to see that, or that their gf would wonder why they are friending other women after going out to the bar. Makes no sense, none of it does. Kids these days... The first guy friended me which did suprise me. The second guy did not, he added himself on my snapchat after I was recording my friend dancing silly. The next day I was able to find him on Facebook because we had previously established that we had a mutual friend. I didn't add him and I don't think he realised how easy it was for me to find him. He also put a photo of a girl on his snapchat my story the next day which I believe to be his girlfriend. He has my number but after my discovery I doubted I would hear from him again but he messaged me this morning asking how the rest of my weekend went.
dreamingoftigers Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 It's annoying how girls think they need to insert themselves into relationship drama to save women they've never met. I have never seen a guy warn a strange man that his girl is cheating unless it was his close friend. Once, I was fingering a girl on the dance floor (she had initially approached me too)...until her boyfriend came and led her away! I just laughed and enjoyed myself, thinking "oh that poor dude"! I find it weird that people don't tell the victim what's going on. Would they like to be kept in the dark?
Raena Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 It's very possible they are in a open relationship. I knew quite a few couples that had this arrangement. So in a "relationship" doesn't always mean a monogamous one. fb actually has a relationship status of "in an open relationship (with so and so)"... why not just use that then instead of "in a relationship (with so and so)" if you are actually in an open relationship. Seems ridiculous to me. Don't put yourself out there as in taken but then act like you aren't. I see younger people doing this all the time as if being in a committed relationship is similar to the change in the job market. No longer do you work for one company for the rest of your life apparently... it's encouraged to plan on having multiple jobs over the course of your life.... and to be always looking for the bigger better deal while still with your current job (relationship). It's a shift in our culture that I find frightening.
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