DeterminedHusbanb Posted November 22, 2015 Posted November 22, 2015 (edited) I'm with an attractive woman and the relationship has problems. After falling for her, faith was non existent, she really slept around, lots of one nighters, and snorted a lot of Coke for a few years. I just feel she is skanked. In fights she compared (or said it was a joke) my body. Our city isn't big, and I think I probably run into a lot of guys she has history with. Thoughts? Edited November 22, 2015 by DeterminedHusbanb Spelling
thecrucible Posted November 22, 2015 Posted November 22, 2015 If you are religious and she isn't then this could be a dealbreaker in itself, regardless of anything else. I personally think it was crude and offensive of her to compare you to another guy. To me this is a complete "no go" conversation even if conveyed in a jokey fashion. How much did she sleep around? Did she tell you this stuff herself or did you hear it on the grapevine? It's a simple answer really. Either you accept her past for what it is and move on, or you find someone else.
Author DeterminedHusbanb Posted November 22, 2015 Author Posted November 22, 2015 When she was 30 she said there had been 14 others, sounds weird to remember that huh? I think it was more and have very good reason to believe that her and girls compared notes and she was a size queen.
smackie9 Posted November 22, 2015 Posted November 22, 2015 She's really isn't in a relationship with you....she is just hanging out with you until she gets bored or has enough. Are you buying her dinners, flowers, gifts? helping her pay her bills?
thecrucible Posted November 22, 2015 Posted November 22, 2015 When she was 30 she said there had been 14 others, sounds weird to remember that huh? I think it was more and have very good reason to believe that her and girls compared notes and she was a size queen. She might very well be telling the truth. I hate that men assume that you're lying when you tell them your number and add more to it. If I was dating someone and he really wanted to know, I would just tell him straight. Now I think I should just say something like "It won't do any of us any good to bring up past relationships. What good can come come from this conversation?". It seriously just opens up a can of worms. So how do you know this? Has someone told you they had this conversation?
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