Chr15 Posted November 21, 2015 Posted November 21, 2015 I was dating a guy for about 2 months. Last date we went to the cinema with some of his friends (first time meeting these friends, we got on well), then I stayed over at his. He was really affectionate with me, even in front of his friends, everything was as normal. In the lead up to the date though I felt he wasn't making as much effort with contact, and then after the date, again I didn't feel he was making much effort. We were texting a few days later and after that I decided to pull back and stop initiating everything. I was also going away to a friends wedding. Anyway, since then I haven't heard from him so I guess it's over. It's been almost 2 weeks now. I think I might have left a jumper at his. Should I text him and ask if it's there? Or do I just leave the jumper as missing and hope it turns up somewhere else?
Glitters Posted November 21, 2015 Posted November 21, 2015 If you can't afford to buy a new one then of course ask for it but if you looking for a reason to contact him , it might backfire.
Author Chr15 Posted November 21, 2015 Author Posted November 21, 2015 No intention of dating him again when he didn't have the respect in the first place to tell me he didn't want to see me anymore. Just it was a new jumper that I really like and got on holidays. It just feels a bit weird texting him nearly 2 weeks later to ask if it's there. I was afraid he would think it was just an excuse to talk to him, but then again I'm not gonna see him again anyway...
phineas Posted November 21, 2015 Posted November 21, 2015 So, you tried to make the man chase & he lost interest when you pulled away. LOL!
introverted1 Posted November 21, 2015 Posted November 21, 2015 Unless the "it" in an irreplaceable family heirloom, never ask for it back. There's no way for it not to sound like a desperate attempt to make contact. That goes double if the "it" ends up not being in the ex's possession after all.
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