AirGordon2245 Posted November 20, 2015 Posted November 20, 2015 I met this girl through a friend of mine a few weeks ago. My friend her went to the same high school a few years ago. We got along great. The only time I hung out with her was when my friend invited her. So we were friends but not close. Fast forward a couple weeks later we all went out drinking. Long story short, we ended up having sex. Afterwards we both agreed that nothing would be awkward towards us. I told her I wasn't looking for a relationship and she was cool with it. Recently she has been getting annoyed in a playful way asking why I don't text her. I told her that I am very busy man. I don't make things awkward but she does. For example my friend would invite us out to his place and whenever I get there it's like she pays attention to everyone else but me, which is cool but when she sees me talking to another girl, she will pay more attention. The thing I can't figure out is that she has her friends being weird to me as well plus it seems like whenever I'm talking to a girl I will go away for a brief moment to come back to her talking to the girl I was talking too. Telling her that we hooked up. I'm just trying to figure out how to handle this situation. Thoughts?
Gemma1 Posted November 21, 2015 Posted November 21, 2015 Wait until she gets over it, and be as casually nice as you can in the meantime. When her emotions fade, she'll be ok. Especially if you prove to be a nice guy. If you confront, it will probably just make things worse.
Robratory Posted November 21, 2015 Posted November 21, 2015 Long story short, we ended up having sex. . . . I'm just trying to figure out how to handle this situation. Thoughts? Well, there's only one thing we can do. I know some cement contractors who can dispose of the body. Next time, don't screw while drinking. But seriously. Why aren't you willing to go for seconds? Does she really bite the mailman? I mean, how much alcohol do you need to find her acceptable? But if it's just plain no as far as you're concerned, then you have to just stick to your guns. Remind her, not angrily but seriously, that you had already agreed nothing would follow. Remind her that this is a "what part of NO don't you understand?" situation.
PogoStick Posted November 21, 2015 Posted November 21, 2015 Well you'll have to go somewhere without her when you want to pickup a new girl. That's normal, reasonable, and the kind thing to do. 1
Buddhist Posted November 21, 2015 Posted November 21, 2015 I met this girl through a friend of mine a few weeks ago. My friend her went to the same high school a few years ago. We got along great. The only time I hung out with her was when my friend invited her. So we were friends but not close. Fast forward a couple weeks later we all went out drinking. Long story short, we ended up having sex. Afterwards we both agreed that nothing would be awkward towards us. I told her I wasn't looking for a relationship and she was cool with it. Recently she has been getting annoyed in a playful way asking why I don't text her. I told her that I am very busy man. I don't make things awkward but she does. For example my friend would invite us out to his place and whenever I get there it's like she pays attention to everyone else but me, which is cool but when she sees me talking to another girl, she will pay more attention. The thing I can't figure out is that she has her friends being weird to me as well plus it seems like whenever I'm talking to a girl I will go away for a brief moment to come back to her talking to the girl I was talking too. Telling her that we hooked up. I'm just trying to figure out how to handle this situation. Thoughts? Distance yourself from her. She clearly can't handle the fact it was a ONS. 1
Glitters Posted November 21, 2015 Posted November 21, 2015 She will not let any girl come close to you. She will cokblock everyone. You will have to disappear and find a girl for yourself completely out of her reach.
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