Kylemopar Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 I work with her on the weekends. We flirted for a little bit, I asked her out once and got her number. She accepted the invitation but the date never went through and during the time I had her number she only replied like twice saying that the day we chose won't work out for her and if she can just tell me when she is able to. People say that she just isn't interested in me. So how can I make her interested and have her WANT to go out with me. I'm not ugly, people say I'm like a 7 or an 8 so that's good. Supposedly we were supposed to go out tomorrow after 9pm but I just don't see it happening because she's going to Tijuana today and doesn't know what time she'll be back tomorrow. I found it weird because who goes to Mexico for only a day on a Thursday? So I guess it was just an excuse to not go out with me. She accepted my date invitation, she chose the time and day. The next day she gave me her number so I just don't know what made her lose interest. So how can I make her interested when I see her at work? Don't just ignore her?
Oregon_Dude Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 who goes to Mexico for only a day on a Thursday?Have you seen Dallas Buyers Club? 1
lilmissjava Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 You can't force someone to like you. Even if you are a 7 or 8. You might not be a 7 or 8 to her. 1
Author Kylemopar Posted November 20, 2015 Author Posted November 20, 2015 Well not force her either but anything I can do or say to her that attracts her?
mystikmind2005 Posted November 20, 2015 Posted November 20, 2015 The best thing you can do is stop thinking about what she might like about you and start thinking about what 'you' and your close friends like about you and bring that game to her. And do that with confidence, self doubt is not attractive.
Samhain Posted November 20, 2015 Posted November 20, 2015 Other than a sack over her head and a van with tinted windows, you're not going to get a female who doesn't want to spend time with you in your company. Looks matter very little when people have different types and different attractions. And she's clearly been trying to let you down gently. Let her go. 3
Author Kylemopar Posted November 20, 2015 Author Posted November 20, 2015 Well I work with her so it's not like I can completely give up. It's gonna be awkward.
matt1221 Posted November 20, 2015 Posted November 20, 2015 Like it doesn't bother you at all. Flirt and talk with with other girls in front of her. The worst thing you can do is keep going back to her if she isn't interested. There's a good chance it won't work, but it might be your only chance.
lilmissjava Posted November 20, 2015 Posted November 20, 2015 Well I work with her so it's not like I can completely give up. It's gonna be awkward. You are teetering on obsessive here... You just have to have that girl? Like some sort of prize to satisfy your 7 or 8 self? Your thread from last evening begged the same question. If you cannot take reasonable, logical and objective advice from both women and men here, then by all means, do what you have to do to get that particular girl, despite her not wanting to spend time with you, and the fact that you titled this thread: "How to get a girl (who is not interested) interested" 1
mrldii Posted November 20, 2015 Posted November 20, 2015 Well I work with her so it's not like I can completely give up. It's gonna be awkward. Yeah, you can completely give up. It's only awkward when one keeps pushing, whether the other one works with them or not. I'm beginning to understand why there's so many PSAs as to what "No means no" means.
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