Kylemopar Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 I've got a problem. So there's this girl I started working with, only see her on the weekends. We flirted for a bit, she smiles while staring down on the ground when she walks towards me, gets a bit nervous when I talk to her, and has told a female coworker of ours that she's single and has no kids (loud enough for me to hear.) I gave her my number on a Sunday omce and told her that if she ever wants to hang out one day to give me a call. She said okay and took my number. She never called. The next weekend came and I asked her if I could take her out on a Friday and she said yes after 9pm. The next day on a Sunday I asked for her number and if she was still down to go out on Friday. She said yes and gave me her number on a piece of paper. She seemed nervous, but she's 24, very beautiful, and a waitress so I'm pretty sure she's used to guys asking her out. I called her and she didn't pick up (maybe cause she was still working) I sent her a text to tell her it was me and to save my number. She didn't reply until the next day. She saidthat she meant to reply sooner and that's she's going to a trip to Tijuana on Thursday and doesn't know what time she'll be back so she said she'll let me know if Friday still works. I told her that it was fine and that if she wants that we can reschedule to Saturday and she replied again the next day that she doesn't know if that might work and that she wants to let me know when she's able to. She kept saying sorry. So again I told her it's fine and that of she truly doesn't want to go out anymore that she can just tell me and it'll be okay and that yeah sure to let me know when she's able too, she hasn't replied to that at all. She works at two Denny's so she has two jobs which is why I thought she wasn't replying quickly enough. So I asked a common friend to text her and she replied back to her a minute later. Like wtf. Is she just plainly nervous to go out with me? Is she not interested? Like we flirted, gets quiet when I'm around, helps me with things she's not supposed to, she accepted my invite and got her number....to me that sounds like someone that's interested. I know that you guys will say that someone who's interested will act interested. Maybe she's playing her to get? Teasing me? Like why would someone flake on a person KNOWING they work with that person and WILL see them again. I would understand if I was a random bar meetup but I work with this girl and I really like her so I want tips on how to get her and not advice saying things like "Don't waste your time with this person." If she were to not call me on Friday should I talk to her when I see her at work? If so what should I say to her? I really like her.
lilmissjava Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 I told her that it was fine and that if she wants that we can reschedule to Saturday and she replied again the next day that she doesn't know if that might work and that she wants to let me know when she's able to. . Do exactly as she says, don't call me, I'll call you sort of thing. Don't look for something that isn't there. Like you said, she is probably used to a lot of guys asking her out. What makes you different than them if you keep at her? 1
smackie9 Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 She is trying her hardest to not be available to go out with you on purpose....when a girl says she is busy, just got out of a bad relationship, says maybe, doesn't respond, etc....that says "I'M NOT INTERESTED" When I was young and single I hated those guys that wouldn't leave me alone, even when I flat out told them NO. It gets real old.
Author Kylemopar Posted November 19, 2015 Author Posted November 19, 2015 Is there something I can do or say to kind of 'win' her over while I see her at work. Maybe I just didn't leave a good enough impression, I only talked to her for 5 days.
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