Smudgster Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 Long story v short... Trying to maintain NC after reacting to his breadcrumbs a week ago then him ignoring me again. 6 year relationship. Split 2 months. I'm very hurt. Close village location and to heal I've had to remove myself from everything a week ago now, try to build a new life, to avoid him and anything he's up to. Yesterday one of his friends got through and told me there is gossip about me and him (the friend). I've done nothing. Blocked him too. Feel so tempted to reach out to tell ex nothing happened. It was a mutual split from arguing. Dysfunctional relationship. I miss him terribly and I don't want him thinking badly of me but I really don't think i should contact him !! Kick me.
PegNosePete Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 Yesterday one of his friends got through and told me there is gossip about me and him (the friend). I've done nothing. Blocked him too. Well done, that is exactly the right thing to do! You don't deserve a kick, you deserve a cookie! You're doing great, keep it up! 1
Altea Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 Long story v short... Trying to maintain NC after reacting to his breadcrumbs a week ago then him ignoring me again. 6 year relationship. Split 2 months. I'm very hurt. Close village location and to heal I've had to remove myself from everything a week ago now, try to build a new life, to avoid him and anything he's up to. Yesterday one of his friends got through and told me there is gossip about me and him (the friend). I've done nothing. Blocked him too. Feel so tempted to reach out to tell ex nothing happened. It was a mutual split from arguing. Dysfunctional relationship. I miss him terribly and I don't want him thinking badly of me but I really don't think i should contact him !! Kick me. I understand how you feel and if you see my other thread, I am devastated and frankly typing this makes me cry. I just cant stop. Logic may say to do a certain thing. I am a feeler and emotive person and I cant be hard and let my mind control my emotions. I strongly feel we should be driven by feelings and good will overrule bad. I just am perhaps to romantic. I know, I know, others would shoot me down in flames and I am very very raw from a break up and am devastated as something I think I want is not in reach. So maybe I am not best placed to advise. My advice personally would be to follow your heart and just get a little perspective from your soul. If you still feel the same the next day then follow up. What will be, will be at the end of the day.
Author Smudgster Posted November 19, 2015 Author Posted November 19, 2015 Fortunately I resisted. No good can come of repeatedly shoving your hand in the fire. I love him but I'm not going to let him keep destroying me. 1
Author Smudgster Posted November 19, 2015 Author Posted November 19, 2015 I understand how you feel and if you see my other thread, I am devastated and frankly typing this makes me cry. I just cant stop. Logic may say to do a certain thing. I am a feeler and emotive person and I cant be hard and let my mind control my emotions. I strongly feel we should be driven by feelings and good will overrule bad. I just am perhaps to romantic. I know, I know, others would shoot me down in flames and I am very very raw from a break up and am devastated as something I think I want is not in reach. So maybe I am not best placed to advise. My advice personally would be to follow your heart and just get a little perspective from your soul. If you still feel the same the next day then follow up. What will be, will be at the end of the day. I don't know your story...tell me.... I'll help if I can
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