lovelifesmile Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 Today i got into a little rascal with 2 of my friends. It basically was caused because i feel that the 2 of them can never just be their own self as 1 it always have to be the 2 of them. today i confronted one of my friends because she kept staring at me as soon as i said something here comes my other friend jumping in... meanwhile the person i was talking to is quiet. Can anyone tell me what i should do in this type of predicament ?
preraph Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 Doesn't sound like much fun if those two are always going to go against you. Why not just stop contacting them? 1
TaraMaiden2 Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 You're 16. I know this seems important now, but you really need to stop caring so much because believe me, in a year, these people will not be of any significance to you. 1
Author lovelifesmile Posted November 19, 2015 Author Posted November 19, 2015 its just that those are the only people i can really call my friends or have always been around.
preraph Posted November 20, 2015 Posted November 20, 2015 Stop focusing on them and start to make new friends without them. See, if you try to make new friends with them around, they are only going to make that impossible by being a jerk about you. Pick someone at school who doesn't always have someone to walk or sit with and go walk and sit with them. 1
truthtripper Posted November 20, 2015 Posted November 20, 2015 its just that those are the only people i can really call my friends or have always been around. They are not really your friends if they are being mean to you. It's a type of bullying. When I was at school, I had some friends who started treating me like this. At first I broke away from them and found a quiet place outside where I could eat my lunch alone. I complained to some other kids about how horrible they were to me. They felt sorry for me and invited me to join their group of friends. Perhaps you can try doing this too? The best way to get around the problem is to get other kids to support you. You deserve better friends who respect you and treat you well. 1
deen-ooo Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 maybe they're not real friends. Perhaps don't hang about with them that much. 1
Author lovelifesmile Posted November 28, 2015 Author Posted November 28, 2015 thanks for the advice everyone...
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