GTR King Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 Ok so about end of August/Begging of September was meant to meet up with a girl (Bout 10/20 miles from me). Long story short got stood up... (Meant to meet her at carpark across from pub but she drove to other side of car park and said she was ill via text and made me wait 30 mins before I went home) I deleted her number/Facebook etc l Left her snap chat as don't use it much.... She randomly texted me today (After bout 2/3 months of contact) saying Her: Hello bbe u ok xx Me: Who is this xx Her: ******* xx Her: U ok bbe xxx Her: Hello xx Me: gd thx Me: u ok... I told her politely why she stood me up... Me: Hey... Didn't expect to hear from you after you stood me up lol. Her: Awww bless ya well I am full of surprises xx Me: I love the surprises but bit confused why you text me now.. lol x Her: Sorry bbe but life is to short to hate people xx... The she told me that she was ill at moment (Kidney stones/bladder stones) Why she text me after all this time... I have never had this happen before... Don't wanna be messed about again so gonna be careful I think.
losangelena Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 Uhh, maybe just steer completely clear of this woman. Because, yes life is too short to hate people, but that doesn't mean you have to continue to trust people who stand you up and seem to lie about illness. She's not exactly proven herself to be a very reliable person, and you don't need her drifting back in and out of your life like this. I'd say just ignore her. Surely, you have some better options?
Author GTR King Posted November 18, 2015 Author Posted November 18, 2015 (edited) Thanks She said she fainted on way to see me (I knew that was a lie I think) as if she did how could of she drove to where I was... I do have other options but it wired that she massage me again.... No I don't want her drifting in & out of my life as not worth it.... she just text me good night bbe xxx I don't know her at all so it's a bit top much to says babe bbe etc I would say that if i didnt know someone Edited November 18, 2015 by GTR King
AndOrchid Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 Overly familiar and presumptuous. I'd tell her to kick rocks.
Erik30 Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 I would just ignore her. She didn't even apologize for what she did, and on top of that she's saying "well that's me, don't hate. Get over it" I guess she's bored, and is looking for some male attention.
katiegrl Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 Who the hell is bbe? lol She fainted on the way to see you and THAT is why she stood you up? Man, she's good. Not really. My question to you is....why are even entertaining this? Block her....and/or just ignore her. Whacky.
Zippy2000 Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 She fainted knocked her head and 3 months later she texts you. Believe that if you will. If you want to see her then guard your dignity and self respect. "Hurt me once, shame on you. Hurt me twice. Shame on me"!
Ic1 Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 I guarantee this is the real story: - She stood you up because she had another option. - That option died somehow, and she might've gone through a few others. - She becomes desperate and goes back on her records trying a few with random texts. - One replies with something, so she tries to work him. (You) 1
Author GTR King Posted November 19, 2015 Author Posted November 19, 2015 Thanks everyone for the advice..... I did see her drive past me & she saw me in my car (3 clear parking spaces next to me where she could of parked) Gonna be careful with this one.... Will let her txt me...... I am not persuing her she can peruse me if she really wanna meet.... If not won't bother I guess I am her last option and she will F**k off once she finds another guy to date....
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