superfabulous Posted May 26, 2005 Posted May 26, 2005 A year of hanging out ...and recently after weeks of bliss and no call- what is a girl to think , do? He told me I was beautiful. that he would never leave me and then said he was afraid - cuz we had too much fun. ....i havent heard from him - its been more than a week now! i am sad! any good advice??
LucreziaBorgia Posted May 26, 2005 Posted May 26, 2005 Generally, when a guy says he's 'afraid' in a situation like that - he isn't afraid of how he feels, he's afraid of how you feel and knowing he can't live up to or return what he thinks you want from him. Guys who are 'afraid' tend to show how 'afraid' they are by running away from you at top speed if you try to push the issue, so match his pace. If he's 'afraid' and not calling you, then don't call him or try to contact him. If he wants to call you, he will. What to do? Call up friends, go out, forcefully fill your time with things other than wondering what happened to him. He may call, or he may not - but keep yourself busy in the meantime.
Author superfabulous Posted May 26, 2005 Author Posted May 26, 2005 I think my one an only responder was right on the money! thanks for saying it so loud and clearly perfect... So yah...I know and will....move on appreciate your help
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