nathan101 Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 Was running through fb a while ago. Scrolling down and I saw my ex tagged in a pic with some mutual friends of ours. She blocked me during the break up . its been bout two months since no contact, she just messaged me earlier this month and that's the only thing I heard from her during those months. So she just unblocks me all of a sudden. I find it strange really. Theres no need for that . What do I do should I block her ?? I'm asking because idk how I feel or what to do. So I'm asking you guys here to help me .
LivingDeadGrl Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 If you aren't over her then yes, block her. She will notice though, and in you doing so she will know you still care. If you no long give a crap about her or what she is doing, leave her unblocked, like you haven't noticed a thing
Ic1 Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 Could she ever be a friend again? Ignore her for now making no move. You don't want to ever be her friend? Block her.
Author nathan101 Posted November 18, 2015 Author Posted November 18, 2015 If you aren't over her then yes, block her. She will notice though, and in you doing so she will know you still care. If you no long give a crap about her or what she is doing, leave her unblocked, like you haven't noticed a thing Thats the thing. Idk how I feel. Right now. I am over her. I don't feel any pain, I don't miss her just think bout her sometimes and that's it. Idk what's her reason for unblocking me. Or if there is a reason.
Author nathan101 Posted November 18, 2015 Author Posted November 18, 2015 Could she ever be a friend again? Ignore her for now making no move. You don't want to ever be her friend? Block her. Honestly I don't see us being anything again Not even friends. The past year she treated me like absolute crap. And I stayed because I thought there was something good for us . but she didn't want me in her life no more. And after all the begging and pleading I gave her what she wanted and two months ago I was out of her life. I think its best if I keep it that way.
KatZee Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 She's getting ready to contact you again, that's for sure. She's going to tug on the leash to see if you're still into her, or if you want to be "friends." DON'T BLOCK HER. This will show her: A) You still pay attention to her social media B) That you're still affected by her, and still care and still have emotional attachment to her. Go about your life like you haven't even noticed. Do not make one move. Don't give her any satisfaction or ego stroking that you still care in ANY sort of capacity. If you don't see you and her ever together again, and you feel no pain, then this should be easy to do. And if she reaches out via FB, make sure you open her message so she gets the "✓ Seen" notification, and then... ignore it.
joseb Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 Thats the thing. Idk how I feel. Right now. I am over her. I don't feel any pain, I don't miss her just think bout her sometimes and that's it. Idk what's her reason for unblocking me. Or if there is a reason. If you're over her, then why are you wondering why she unblocked you? Such trivial stuff would be irrelevant.
xcupid Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 Honestly I don't see us being anything again Not even friends. The past year she treated me like absolute crap. And I stayed because I thought there was something good for us . but she didn't want me in her life no more. And after all the begging and pleading I gave her what she wanted and two months ago I was out of her life. I think its best if I keep it that way. Then block her and get on with your life.
Empyrea Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 I think common practice here is that people block out of impulse or anger or whatever, for time to heal after a break up, and then unblock when they feel like they've moved on. Blocking seems like a hostile move and once you're past the hostility, you don't mind having this person in your friends list. I mean if you have your manicurist and their mother on your friends list then why wouldn't you have the person you spent so much time with? I have all my exes as my friends and I've never got the whole point of blocking someone, but I know dramatic people do it. I think it's nice to stay in casual contact if need be or kind of know what they're up to. Then again, I've never had any bad break ups as such. I wouldn't think anything into it. Just leave it. Unless you want to send a message that you're still affected by her.
Marc878 Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 Block her and on your phone As well. She probably wanting to feed you some breadcrumbs. Don't ever cry and beg a girl. The worst thing you can do. Info for the future
Daisy-oliviaWentcher Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 Maybe block her if you feel it will make YOU feel better. It's about you now. You're no longer with her. In five years time or ten years time, when you're in a new relationship, unblock her, but by that stage, she'll be here nor there. I've blocked people and have forgotten I've blocked them. Including an ex. We have said our " I'm sorry's" 12 years later! lol! and now there is no reason to block that person. Just for when you feel you are ready to be... well free of her entirely and have completely moved on with your life
Zippy2000 Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 I would ask you NOT to block her. I mean why would you? I dont know the whole story of why you broke up but my thoughts are that she has now moved on and is ready to have you back in your life. Normally we block people who have been abusive online or sending us SPAM. She has done none of these. Think ahead what it means if you block her. Just leave things as they are
Maggie4 Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 i don't know how facebook works. so if you block her, will that stop you from seeing more pictures of her? I know you are over her, but you don't need the aggravation of seeing pictures of her with possibly a new boyfriend in the coming weeks. Who needs that?
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