Abusive ex contacting me again

[butterfly_1991]

I am 24 I met my ex two years ago when I was 22. He is 5 years older than me. Everything was perfect in the beginning for us. He was very charming. However, I noticed some things wrong since the beginning. When we made love, he did not want to use protection. He is clean and I got tested after, but even when I begged him and said I don't want to get pregnant he said he is allergic to condoms and cant use them, completely disregarding my wishes for him to use them. I was so in love with him and he totally swept me off my feet so I wasn't using my mind at all at the beginning. About 2 months after, he kept asking my ex and began assuming I was still seeing him out of nowhere. He started checking my phone, one time he snatched it out of my hand and I had to fight him to get It back. He looked through it and saw a guys name but this guy was really my friend. The conversation was innocent. He got really mad and said "now I will drive you to the middle of nowhere and leave you out there all alone so you cant get home" He would intimidate me and threaten me. So I left and broke it off. Two months later, he came to my work just to "check up on me and see how I was" he wanted another chance so I gave him another chance but then he did the same thing months later. So I left him for a final time. I changed my number, place of work, completely disappeared from facebook (deactivated my account) Just recently, I made a new facebook only for my friends and family because I don't want to be scared forever plus it has been 8/9 months since I broke it off with him and left him. As soon as I opened up a new account, he sent me a friend request. I am worried. I was hoping he would get over me and forget me since it has been a while but it seems that is not the case. Why is he adding me on facebook? What can I do??

[Redfisher]

Really? Call the cops and have a restraining order put on this fool. Sounds like he will hurt you. Good luck.

[Maggie4]

To start, just completely ignore him. Don't reply at all.

[Ic1]

I'd make sure others are aware of his actions that crossed the line in case he crosses a line again.

 

But of course block him. Perhaps send him a message right before blocking simply stating you want nothing to do with him.