Ivanov1990 Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 (edited) Long story short because i know you guys hate reading. Was dating psychopath girl had really strong feelings for her emotional roller coaster if you will, girl breaks up with me so i immediately contact another girl i saw at a party her name is lets say kelly (kelly is also bisexual). Fast forward me and kelly meet for drinks everyhting goes beyond well, we both love working out, hip hop, video games, same humor the similarities between us were insane it was awesome! Fast forward ive met her family they love me my family loves her, we hardly argue shes gorgeous never wants to fight always wants to talk faithful the whole 9 yards ( wife material) for some reason im still not over previous said girl but im doing my best to fall more in love with Kelly, i ignore her a bit don't pay attention to her as much as i should but i never hurt her feelings in any way i love her but not as much as she loves me for sure but i still do . we date for a year and a half we laugh we smile we go on trips dates we do it all but we are more like friends due to me no caring as much due to previous girl still lingering in my mind. Eventually a conversation comes up and she she says sorry we don't have sex that much i ask her is it because shes bi that maybe she wants girls as well. She says that might be it and she gets bored with guys and goes back and forth as shes done in the past ( we get emotional and cried that night because the conversation was very heartbreaking she was crying saying she doesn't ever want to hurt me im her everything) something broke that night after that conversation and we fell apart, we tried to work it out but something felt different every time i saw her and she saw me we would see each other and just cry and feel something wrong. ( i also let her now that i might be not that into sex because of some the weight shes gained but i continued to say ive gained weight to its not just you its me too) We tried to work it out but we felt different. Fast forward shes now dating a girl ive asked her if we can try and fix things and im sorry she says that we got too comfortable and we lost the spark and that we are not ready for this right now, she said ITS OVER FOR NOW. and that's the bare bones story. Its now bin 4 months of NC i haven't heard from her except her wanting her stuff back and giving me mine back. I've made a huge mistake and im extremely sad i need this girl back, i realize that i should have loved and cared more and it took her leaving to make me realize it. Please help what do i do? Edited November 18, 2015 by Ivanov1990 To clear it up.
Blanco Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 A paragraph (from the Ancient Greek παράγραφος paragraphos, "to write beside" or "written beside") is a self-contained unit of a discourse in writing dealing with a particular point or idea. A paragraph consists of one or more sentences. 1
Amelie1980 Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 A paragraph (from the Ancient Greek παράγραφος paragraphos, "to write beside" or "written beside") is a self-contained unit of a discourse in writing dealing with a particular point or idea. A paragraph consists of one or more sentences. I gave up reading it for that reason. It is too hard. Op re post it in smaller chunks.
craw Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 I've seen much longer posts on LS. Been dying to post it.
mightycpa Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 Long story short because i know you guys hate reading. Was dating psychopath girl had really strong feelings for her emotional roller coaster if you will, girl breaks up with me so i immediately contact another girl i saw at a party her name is lets say kelly (kelly is also bisexual). Fast forward me and kelly meet for drinks everyhting goes beyond well, we both love working out, hip hop, video games, same humor the similarities between us were insane it was awesome! Fast forward ive met her family they love me my family loves her, we hardly argue shes gorgeous never wants to fight always wants to talk faithful the whole 9 yards ( wife material) for some reason im still not over previous said girl but im doing my best to fall more in love with Kelly, i ignore her a bit don't pay attention to her as much as i should but i never hurt her feelings in any way i love her but not as much as she loves me for sure but i still do . we date for a year and a half we laugh we smile we go on trips dates we do it all but we are more like friends due to me no caring as much due to previous girl still lingering in my mind. Eventually a conversation comes up and she she says sorry we don't have sex that much i ask her is it because shes bi that maybe she wants girls as well. She says that might be it and she gets bored with guys and goes back and forth as shes done in the past ( we get emotional and cried that night because the conversation was very heartbreaking she was crying saying she doesn't ever want to hurt me im her everything) something broke that night after that conversation and we fell apart, we tried to work it out but something felt different every time i saw her and she saw me we would see each other and just cry and feel something wrong. ( i also let her now that i might be not that into sex because of some the weight shes gained but i continued to say ive gained weight to its not just you its me too) We tried to work it out but we felt different. Fast forward shes now dating a girl ive asked her if we can try and fix things and im sorry she says that we got too comfortable and we lost the spark and that we are not ready for this right now, she said ITS OVER FOR NOW. and that's the bare bones story. Its now bin 4 months of NC i haven't heard from her except her wanting her stuff back and giving me mine back. I've made a huge mistake and im extremely sad i need this girl back, i realize that i should have loved and cared more and it took her leaving to make me realize it. Please help what do i do? Here's what you do: Write your stories better by breaking them up like I did above. I didn't change one word, and it is much more readable.Lose some weight. Exercise or something. Eat half meals.When somebody tells you they don't want to see you any more, that they lost the spark, and that they're not ready and they start seeing somebody else, BELIEVE THEM. THEY MEAN IT. THEY ARE SERIOUS.Leave her alone and get a new girl. She's not coming back to you for more. That's what you do.
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