Izaya Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 (edited) I'd like you to tell it as detailed as possible. It doesn't need to be the one about the first person you went out with. Do you think it was a successful date? Why? Edited November 18, 2015 by Izaya
Robert Z Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 Haha, my first date... I haven't thought of that in a long time. I took my best friend's sister to the movies. Tried to give oral sex for the first time. I think I just got a mouth full of hair. So then he took out my sister. 1
cocorico Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 I'd like you to tell it as detailed as possible. It doesn't need to be the one about the first person you went out with. Do you think it was a successful date? Why? I was 11, and the last girl in the class to start "going out", as we called it. When the other girls sat around during break discussing what they'd done (nothing more than petting - it was never age-inappropriate) I never had anything to contribute, and I'd been asked several times if I was a lesbian, as a result. So when G asked me out, I said yes. I knew him vaguely - he used to be a friend of my brother's some years back, though they were at different schools at that point. Because m mother was weird - hanging out was forbidden, etc - we were very socially isolated and so I would never have been allowed out with a boy. Luckily group work was all the rage in schools at that time, so that became my cover. But it did place constraints over when, and what, was possible on the "going out" front. Our options were a movie, or a milkshake at the local steakhouse. Because the steakhouse was next door to the neighbourhood grocery store, where I might be spotted by my mother, it had to be the movie - an Agatha Christie film. I'd read the book, he hadn't. We sat in the darkness, fumbling awkwardly, both of us realising pretty quickly that this wasn't the romance of the century. The film was mediocre, but he enjoyed it. A polite peck on the lips and we parted. It gave me a set of initials to carve into my school ruler, some basis from which to hint at tales to tell during break, and the abiding sense that I was never, ever, going to put myself through that again... And I didn't. So I reckon yes, success all round.
2.50 a gallon Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 When I met her I had been divorced from my Ex for a dozen years. My first thought when I met her was there was a girl I could kiss good morning to for the rest of my life. Second thought was wow, look at them legs. She was totally out of my league in the looks department, anybody that good looking was sure to have a man in her life. So I my plan of action was to become friends and wait for him to make a mistake. I had to wait for over two years. In the dozen years after the break up of my marriage I must have dated easily 30 to 40 women. But on our first date, I reverted back to my early dating years, there was just something about her that threw me off. The date was a disaster. Using my charm I was able to talk her into going out with me a second time. This time she wanted to get out of the city, so we were supposed to go to the river for a late evening picnic. After driving for almost an hour when we got to the road to the river, it was closed due to a bad accident. It was another dating disaster. In fact it was so bad I gave up and took her home at 7, but before I lost her for good I was determined to get at least one kiss. That one kiss got me back to my old ways, and I ended up taking her home about one in the morning. Last month was our 20 year anniversary.
d0nnivain Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 My 1st date was when I was 16. I was on vacation with my parents & the 18 year old lifeguard at the water park asked me out for that night. What teenaged girl doesn't want to date the lifeguard? He took me to a boardwalk where we ate cotton candy & went on some rides. That 1st kiss made me swoon & we had a hot make out session under the boardwalk . . . classic summer romance. He was a bit too pushy & I demanded to be taken back to my parents. Looking back I'm very lucky that in my naive youth something awful did not happen to me. Because my parents & I were only in the area for the week & it was already the middle of the week when I met him, I suppose it was as successful as it could have been for a one time thing but it didn't go anywhere In hindsight, the lifeguard probably preyed on young impressionable girls like me for sport. Live & learn. 1
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