savvy2008 Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 It's been two weeks since my ex broke up with me. We've had one conversation a couple days after the break up where I asked him to explain what happened, he didn't really explain as much as I wanted, and we haven't spoken since. I thought everything was going great. He got along great with my son, we were getting serious, been together 8 months and had each other's car and house keys. One night he shows up at my house and says he doesn't know how to do relationships, thinks maybe he is not cut out for them. He says he is passive aggressive, pushes people away and needs to be single to deal with his own crap. This hapened 3 months ago and after a weekend of it he came back apologizing, agreeing that if he wants a relationship with me he has to work through problems he has, with me. This time it's different. He's posting a lot on social media when he didn't before, liking and commenting lots of people's posts and pictures. I've since changed my settings so I don't see his activity but it bothered me. This is a man who did all the right things. He called when he said, he took care of me, he was sweet to my son, he treated me like a queen This is a relationship women dream of. I'm trying so hard to get over him and move on but it's a struggle. Why did he just up and leave without a solid reason, after telling me he loves me and wants to make it with me? What can I do to avoid this happening in the future?
AspenBaldwin Posted December 12, 2015 Posted December 12, 2015 What can I do to avoid this happening in the future? After reading some of the relationship stories on here i believe asking for a psychological test prior to dating would be the safest bet.
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