Will a rebound get a second chance?

[Bradt]

I met this girl a couple of months after my gf of 7years left me. At first I thought that I'm not ready for any comitment, because I was still getting over my ex. But a couple of months into the relationship things got very serious(I know bout the honymoon fase).

We started enjoying our time together. And our kids started to connect.I have a daughter of 9years old and she a daughter of 2years old. Anyway,we had plans from xmas into next year. The 3rd month of our relationship she started to withdraw bit by bit...We still had our good days but I could sense something is up. I really fell for this girl. We both still spoke of merriage...I know it was a bit sudden but I felt deep inside that she the one for me, I have never had that feeling for anyone so soon in a relationship.

What happened waz that she became rude to me sometimes. I couldn't understand why. We spoke about it and kinda sorted it out. It felt so good that I almost went and bought an engagement ring.

Ok, so we had an arguement 3 weeks ago and she broke up with me, it tore me appart, I found out yesterday that she is back with her childs father. I know he abused her and cheated on her before. So I'm sure hes going to do it again. And I know the only reason he made up with her was because he could see how happy she was with me. She been single for over a year and he wasn't interested in her. Just after me and her got serious, he started to give money for the child,which he didn't do before. I know how a child connect people,me and my childs mom is still there for each other.She is merried and if she argue with her husband she talks to me,but I will never try and come between them.

I know my current ex is making a mistake to go back to her baby daddy. He treated her lik crap. She just fell for his bs becuase she was hurt for leaving me.Her mom told me she been crying a lot. I was still trying to fix things. But now she back with him. So I'm going n/c.

I need advice on how to win her back.I'm friends with her parents and we somtimes party together. So I will see her again,and I know her ex(current bf) will not like it. Is the a chance to win her back??

[LostOnes05]

I'd sit back and watch the fireworks if I were you. And do you really want someone that will snap at you, then up and leave because someone else came back in the picture? Truly think about it before you decide that's what you want because the child's father will be around no matter what.

[xUnknown]

Yeah, move on from this one...she isn't worth your time. If she's willing to get back with him so quickly that just goes to show how into you she was... let this one go and keep looking for yours.

[Bradt]

Yeah,you right...I spent all day yesterday thinking. And I have to let it go...her loss if she goes back to a cheating abuser...There's someone else out there for me...I'm just struggling to kill this hope I have...