Hellya Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 I'm an early 30 guy and I have a 26 years old female roommate. I like my roommate, and I think she knows that, but the thing is she has bf who lives out of country (in her hometown). We have a good relationship now. We went out for a dinner and a movie last week (2 different days), but I was afraid to do a move, because if she doesn't like me she will move out for sure. What do you guys/girls think that I need to do? Some more info: She's not a party person. She's very loyal, I guess. She invited me for a movie, twice. A few days ago she said, I'm not sure if I want to marry my bf, but then quickly added, I might do it just for tax exemptions! Yesterday she said "my bf, which will be my future husband!, gonna come here soon." Is she playing with me? Or she just wants to make it clear that she's not interested in me? Thank you guys and girls!
PegNosePete Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 She has a boyfriend and is "loyal"? I would not go there. She is just hanging with you as a friend. As you say, if you make a move and she doesn't reciprocate then she will move out and her BF may have strong words (or more) with you. She's not playing with you, she's just being friends.
Author Hellya Posted November 18, 2015 Author Posted November 18, 2015 (edited) She has a boyfriend and is "loyal"? I'm not sure about that, just guessing! It's based on the things she's telling me. We text each other almost everyday btw. We cook together too, but we don't share it! lol She goes to her room to eat. Yesterday she asked me if I've been in Hawaii, I said no, then she said I'm planning to go there for Feb. I was like, wow that's great, if I could get a vacation i'd love to join! But she didn't say anything lol There's a chance that her bf doesn't really exist. Edited November 18, 2015 by Hellya
PegNosePete Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 Yesterday she asked me if I've been in Hawaii, I said no, then she said I'm planning to go there for Feb. I was like, wow that's great, if I could get a vacation i'd love to join! But she didn't say anything lol There's a chance that her bf doesn't really exist. There's also a chance she's going to Hawaii with her boyfriend and if you went along you wouldn't get any sleep.
TheArtist Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 From what you've said I think she's just being a good friend at this stage. Why not casually ask what her boyfriend is like? Does he like painting, or play guitar? She might be excited to tell you about him or she might be making it all up (can't see why she'd do that though). Either way she'll probably be happy that you're interested in her life and you might be able to gauge something from that.
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