Dylon Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 You blocking her says more about your state of mind than she unblocking you. Like Amelie said, it shows an indifference towards you: it's doesn't matter, I'm cool, I moved on, I remember you and you are just like everyone else so why should you be blocked anymore. Just because she made the effort to go unblock you doesn't mean she wants something and thinking of you. You block her says you are not over it and you are angry, showing resentment, ect. She unblocks you means the drama is over. This was childish. Sorry if it hurts but that's usually the case. It's time to move on, right? I'm surprise by people doing this anyway because most people have multiple accounts.
marcusdevilliers Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 Its ok to be confused. do what you feel is right. my take on it is if you block her then you arent over her and your still in pain. no one escapes from an ex, you may see her around sometime and what will you do?? be strong, you know it wasnt working out. so live your life now and thats all. if you unblock her its more of a good thing in my opinion. you dont have to be friends but atleast she knows your actually ok and your not thinking bout your relationship that ended, and thats better for you so you can move on and find someone new with no pain or resentment from your previous relationship.
Amelie1980 Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 You blocking her says more about your state of mind than she unblocking you. Like Amelie said, it shows an indifference towards you: it's doesn't matter, I'm cool, I moved on, I remember you and you are just like everyone else so why should you be blocked anymore. Just because she made the effort to go unblock you doesn't mean she wants something and thinking of you. You block her says you are not over it and you are angry, showing resentment, ect. She unblocks you means the drama is over. This was childish. Sorry if it hurts but that's usually the case. It's time to move on, right? I'm surprise by people doing this anyway because most people have multiple accounts. I dont know so much. I still think unblocking means something especially when you are NC anyway. I just remembered that i blocked an ex of mine back in early 2014. I forgot about him until this thread. I am never going to hear from him again and vice versa, so even though the drama is over why would I take the time to unblock him when we will never speak again anyway. There is no point. \i am leaving him blocked as I am not going to take the time to look for him on facebook to unblock him when we arent going to talk anymore anyway.
Jenmarie Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 So if it means nothing. Why did you unblock your ex? I have never unblocked my ex. I dont want to know what is going on in his life. Unblocking your ex means you must have thought about them in the first place to go and unblock them, and then unblock them why if you have no intention of speaking to them again. The fact that you unblock at all if you still have no intention of having anything to do with them is puzzling. Sure, I thought about him enough to unblock him. I guess it means I'm civil with him enough. I don't stalk his facebook and I'm over everything so, what's the point of keeping him blocked? Maybe I am different. Usually when I unblock an ex, it's out of indifference.
Amelie1980 Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 Sure, I thought about him enough to unblock him. I guess it means I'm civil with him enough. I don't stalk his facebook and I'm over everything so, what's the point of keeping him blocked? Maybe I am different. Usually when I unblock an ex, it's out of indifference. I just remembered my ex though that i blocked last year. We will never contact each other again. Why would i even take the time to unblock him.
Dylon Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 I just remembered my ex though that i blocked last year. We will never contact each other again. Why would i even take the time to unblock him. Because it's the final word......that it doesn't matter anymore. I don't need to have a name "blocked" on my account? Seeing that name is a mark on your account that's a reminder? Nothing there in your account set all things free? I guess we all see it with a different view. If it's me and I go to my block setting and see the same and just leave it, it says more about my state than if I unblock it and it's gone for good.
Amelie1980 Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 Because it's the final word......that it doesn't matter anymore. I don't need to have a name "blocked" on my account? Seeing that name is a mark on your account that's a reminder? Nothing there in your account set all things free? I guess we all see it with a different view. If it's me and I go to my block setting and see the same and just leave it, it says more about my state than if I unblock it and it's gone for good. See for me it is the other way around. I never look at my blocked list on facebook. I never see the name. If I was to unblock my ex he would be quite likely to show up on my people you may know friends list. We were previously friends and I have no doubt he would show up on the people you may know list. I dont want his name and face popping up on my suggested friends.
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