lostboyfromsouth Posted November 17, 2015 Posted November 17, 2015 My ex girlfriend broke up with me 6 days ago now. Shed been pretty horrible too me and used me for her own self. The weekends just gone and i went to a uni house part 3 hours away from home. To cut a long story short i ended up going back with this girl to her house (she's a uni student) and well you can probably guess the rest. In the morning things were awkward but she is actually a really nice down to earth girl. We didn't leave her room all day and just talked, laughed, slept, and the other thing (x 2) My problem is is that she says she's not a softy which I kind of am but she really was. Kept holding my hand, cuddling up to me, kissing me, and just generally wrapping her self around me. She said I never had to leave if i didn't want to. This really got my hopes up and i felt a strong connection with her, she's lovely, kind, sweet, a bit crazy and just a 10 out of 10. We still speak through snapchat everyday and I'm going down there next weekend but I'm not sure what it is but i feel like maybe I've fallen too quickly. I feel like maybe she knows she soft inside but doesn't want to admit it. I mean we talked bout really personal things. She's just so... Nervous about being with someone i guess! What should i do!!!!
d0nnivain Posted November 17, 2015 Posted November 17, 2015 Just have fun but keep your emotions in check. This has rebound written all over it plus it's long distance. She may only want a good time rather than someone serious. You can't replace your EX, especially not in 6 days. 1
smackie9 Posted November 17, 2015 Posted November 17, 2015 Relax and don't push....just take it one day at a time. Spend more of your time outside the bedroom, go out, do stuff and see if this is something suitable for a true relationship or just a booty call/ FWB.
lilmissjava Posted November 17, 2015 Posted November 17, 2015 Take the time to get to know her outside of the bedroom. Find out her likes and interests and please just take your time with her. For all you know, you may be subconsciously needing validation from anyone and she is doing that for you and it will end up a bad ending. Be careful. 1
xUnknown Posted November 17, 2015 Posted November 17, 2015 You're rebounding. I would quit now because if you keep going you'll only hurt yourself more down the road.
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