Author 7121157 Posted November 23, 2015 Author Posted November 23, 2015 So, I have been doing the NC thing for about 3 weeks. The last time I communicated with my ex, she called me asking to meet up to give me back my stuff. I told her I didnt care about that stuff and said I was busy... Today, she calls me 2 times early in the morning and i didnt answer. She leaves me a text asking if my nephew still wanted an old fish tank she had. I still didnt respond to the text. She also mentioned she "misses the kids" (my nieces and nephews, i live w/ them) Why is she calling me?? If she wanted to give my stuff back, she could have given it to a mutual friend. If she wanted to know about the tank thing, she could have called my sister. ugggh... This sucks.
foam12 Posted November 23, 2015 Posted November 23, 2015 Why is she calling me?? If she wanted to give my stuff back, she could have given it to a mutual friend. If she wanted to know about the tank thing, she could have called my sister. ugggh... This sucks. She is using those other items as an excuse to talk to you or see you. Everyone knows you could go buy a fish tank anywhere and buying a new one may be easier than seeing your ex. So, I just think that is an excuse to contact you. You disappeared from her life, so maybe she is starting to miss you... I've stopped trying to figure out women and their actions after break ups... It all seems like a cluster F and a giant mind F at least in my case as the dumpee. 1
Author 7121157 Posted November 23, 2015 Author Posted November 23, 2015 She is using those other items as an excuse to talk to you or see you. Everyone knows you could go buy a fish tank anywhere and buying a new one may be easier than seeing your ex. So, I just think that is an excuse to contact you. You disappeared from her life, so maybe she is starting to miss you... I've stopped trying to figure out women and their actions after break ups... It all seems like a cluster F and a giant mind F at least in my case as the dumpee. I'm with you on that. I'm so over this whole situation. Yeah, Im pretty much a ghost to her. No visibility on me.
Author 7121157 Posted November 25, 2015 Author Posted November 25, 2015 I keep thinking about the text message my ex sent me. Its so difficult to keep the NC going....
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