motorcycle_lover Posted November 16, 2015 Posted November 16, 2015 I was seeing this girl for 3 months. I always gave her rides.I even offered to take her to Vegas. She accepted then later she said no. She came over alot. I always made her dinner and drinks. She would always have her phone with her and constantly be texting.I pretended it didn't bother me. We never slept together though. She always talked about her ex. Then she stopped talking to me so I asked her out to dinner, she rejected. I asked if I could drop her home from her work. She agreed.The next day I messaged her "So when are you going to be my girlfriend?" A fight broke out. I think someone had her cell saying "don't ever talk to my girlfriend again, I will beat you up" I was heartbroken. Two months later, she messages me on facebook "hi babe, guess who this is? text me" I messaged her back gave her my number told her to call me, to let me know when she wants to come over.She texted me telling me she wants to come over. I said "want me to come pick you up now?" I got no reply. I tried adding her to facebook many times. She declined my requests, texted me saying "Why are you trying to add me to facebook" Two months later, she messages me asking how I am. I replied saying "how are you, what's up" No reply. It's been 5 months since and she hasn't contacted me. She is single. I signed up to the same dating site she is on.She is on there everyday.I don't want to contact her again she will think I am stalking her.. Should I message her or wait for her to contact me again?
d0nnivain Posted November 16, 2015 Posted November 16, 2015 This woman knows you like her. The fact that she hasn't reached out to you tells me she doesn't like you the way you like her. Let her go.
capricornmnl Posted November 16, 2015 Posted November 16, 2015 She's not really into you. She might be calling you when she's bored or when no one's noticing her. She's very open to saying she's gonna come over and does it. But she hasn't been consistent. If she wanted you, she had probably initiated meet ups and dates. So, I must say, she only sees you as a friend. It's okay. You'll surely find someone better.
AdrianLee Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 Comeon, Pro, How many more months you wanna suffer? I know for the fact that you liked her, but on her side, I had a feeling that she is just messing around with you. I would like to point out 3 things here. 1) Why is she always texting on her phone when she's with you. Does it cross your mind that whatever you speaks, will she ever listen to single word of yours while texting others? 2) Why didn't she accept your friend request on FB? Something fishy eh.... 3) Why is she still in that dating site? Well, all in all, I would rather that you stop going on with her. If she message you, just reply and treat her as a friend. I believe you deserve someone better than her. So the bottom line is to leave her alone, go get someone much better than her, someone that will listen to you and enjoyed the food you cook and go wherever you wanna bring her... Good luck.
mystikmind2005 Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 It is curious that she asked you why you were trying to add her on facebook? It is almost as if she is inviting you to be more assertive? A long shot perhaps, but what do you have to lose?
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