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Hello

I will start explaining about my past RS then I will proceed with my problem.

 

I met my ex during a short course in Canada. It was a long distance relationship, and by long distance I'm talking about being in the west and she was in Asia, we met once a year, we used texting and Skype on daily basis.

there was a lot of cultural differences, we used to deal with them, but apparently we couldn't deal with personality differences. We managed to keep this RS for two years and half, In fact it wasn't the whole time we were dating, we broke up twice before we decided not to go back to each other on the third one.

 

It's been 11 months since we separated. I had my grieving going, it was strong one in fact it lasts for almost 6 months (I counted every single relapse of sadness) now I'm totally fine, I almost forgot her, she doesn't cross my mind on daily basis, I don't get emotional neither a little bit sad when people ask me about her specifically or generally about my dating past.

 

NOW WHAT I AM CONCERNED OF IS

 

recently I have dreams about us being together, it differs some of them showed us dating some showed tragic and dramatic goodbyes, and some showed her asking me back.

 

I'm concerned about me being unconsciously attached to her.

Do you think this is the case?, and how can I get over it since I'm totally fine on daily basis

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