fred123 Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 Why do girls continue to date guys if they lukewarm about people? Surely as a guy id rather get rejected on the first date then u be lukewarm about me. I want a girl to be into me not lukewarm.
SwordofFlame Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 I've been told some women do that if they have nothing else to do and the guy keeps on planning and paying for everything.
contel3 Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 Because sometimes one date is enough to know you´re not interested...but other times you´re just not sure. You kinda like him but not that much. And you wonder if you´re missing the oportunity for something great. So you continue to date the guy to see if there´s potential. 5
Author fred123 Posted November 15, 2015 Author Posted November 15, 2015 Thats sucks cos i really liked this girl. Its so hare to know the difference between a girl who genuinely is taking it slow cos shes been hurt before or someone who just is lukewarm. Its not fsir on us guys 1
Redfisher Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 Because sometimes one date is enough to know you´re not interested...but other times you´re just not sure. You kinda like him but not that much. And you wonder if you´re missing the oportunity for something great. So you continue to date the guy to see if there´s potential. I concur....Well said.
Author fred123 Posted November 15, 2015 Author Posted November 15, 2015 But 6 dates? When she knows she likes guys earlier than that? Why shall we waste time. We want to be the guy that the girl likes quickly not the one they are lukewarm about?! Surely u girls know when u like a guy?
alphamale Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 I want a girl to be into me not lukewarm. then you have to make her be into you
Odinani Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 then you have to make her be into you A woman is either into you, or not. You can't make her find you irresistible if you are not.
candie13 Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 First 3 dates, first three times you have sex & first three months. Those are the worst. Nothing 's ever certain around those time frames! 1
Karine26 Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 Some girls act aloof and lukewarm on purpose. I have friends do this bc they know the guys will try harder and up the stakes. I personally could never do this but know there's something to it based on the amount of guys chasing them..and the amount of guys writing posts on here about girls they can't figure out. Thats sucks cos i really liked this girl. Looks like it may be working for her as well lol Just ask yourself do you really like HER (what is so desirable about someone who acts lukewarm?) or is it your ego? I'm not saying you don't really like her I'm just throwing that out there.
Leigh 87 Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 I only date men that I have instant chemistry with and feel really into and excited about. ....
phineas Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 If i take a girl out and she doesn't show clear interest I don't contact her again. If they contact me wondering where I am I tell them they didn't seem interested. at that point they usually start making an effort. I just won't waste my time on lukewarm women. you learn to recognize when someone is into you or not with practice.
Versacehottie Posted November 16, 2015 Posted November 16, 2015 Thats sucks cos i really liked this girl. Its so hare to know the difference between a girl who genuinely is taking it slow cos shes been hurt before or someone who just is lukewarm. Its not fsir on us guys Well you don't mean you should have the chance to figure out if you fit, but she should be sure from the first date, do you????? That's what dating is: figuring it out. It's blatantly wrong to lead someone on. But I tend to think people are giving you a chance and you both have the ability to affect the outcome positively or negatively. Sometimes things just don't fit and it takes a few dates to figure that out. I think the majority of girls do NOT have devious ideas in mind (like getting a free meal, etc). More than anything, I think the majority are giving it a chance. The only slightly devious thing that a lot of girls have a problem with is letting a guy down. That's not an easy conversation to have so they will lead guys on and string them along to avoid having it. Far more typical than going out for a free meal. Most of the time girls are hopeful that it will be magical, fairy tale type thing. Bring the magic.
Myragal Posted November 16, 2015 Posted November 16, 2015 Why do girls continue to date guys if they lukewarm about people? Surely as a guy id rather get rejected on the first date then u be lukewarm about me. I want a girl to be into me not lukewarm. Why do guys continue to date a woman who is lukewarm towards him? So many possibilities. We don't know how anyone really feels other than ourselves...even then we can be uncertain.
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