handi Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 Boyfriend just broke up with me since he has a month to live in the country. part of me (most of me right now) wants to make it work but he's from a country where it just won't work, and for him.. the choice is his family or me. So obviously this is a lost cause, but I am really sad at the moment.. and I see no hope even though I don't want to lose hope (its in my nature). I wan tto keep seeing him before he leaves (maybe as friends?) everyone says it'll be hard, but I want to spend a little more time with him. totally feel like i've lost my self-respect by trying like this, but it hurts. He found out he had to leave (school issues) on friday, and told me today that he's leaving in a month. He said we should break up so it wont be harder for us later. I argued we should not since it would be better to spend a few more weeks together. advice from non emotionally involved people is really necessary now. Thanks!
Amelie1980 Posted November 16, 2015 Posted November 16, 2015 Im so sorry you're hurting x The issue is that I don't understand why you are asking whether you should break up now or keep seeing each other. He has already said he doesn't want to do it.
mightycpa Posted November 16, 2015 Posted November 16, 2015 I don't think there's any right or wrong in this situation. It's just what each of you wants, and breakup is the trump card. You don't really get to decide he's wrong.
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