python23 Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 (edited) Hello all, I've been dating a girl for 3 months now, we've been official for a month so it's all new and fresh, we get on really well. She's stunning, very popular, has a busy social life and I've fallen head over heels in love with her, although I'm still to tell her this. I show it with my actions of course. But my concern is I'd like to see her more but she's busy during the week as am I, we usually find an evening a week for each other but we both live with parents so there's no time at all for intimacy. We went away for a weekend last week which was great for various different reasons. But we can't go away every weekend. Next week she's seeing friends Friday and Saturday, and she says we can go for lunch Sunday. So that means il see her for 3 hours or so over two weeks. I'm not comfortable with this, should I say something or just accept I have a really popular girlfriend? We text each other Daily and she's very affectionate when we're together. I've got a great social life myself and I like to see my friends for one night during the weekend but I would like to spend more intimate time with her, I'm thinking of just backing off abit and let her decide when she's seeing me instead of me arranging dates. Edited November 15, 2015 by python23
Odinani Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 Since you both still live at home I am guessing you are incredibly young. Once a week is enough at your age. You need to focus on your studies and career and socialising with your friends. Enjoy your life.
smackie9 Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 You know what the answer to this is....move out and you will have all the freedom you need for intimacy.
smackie9 Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 Oh BTW don't play games with her by backing off....COMMUNICATE.
Author python23 Posted November 15, 2015 Author Posted November 15, 2015 You know what the answer to this is....move out and you will have all the freedom you need for intimacy. I know this but I moved back home to save for a house deposit, which won't be until late next year. I could rent now but that would be a waste of time in the long term.
smackie9 Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 Well then it is what it is. Date someone who has their own place, and doesn't have such a busy schedule or put up with your present situation until next year.
smackie9 Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 Oh and just talk to her instead of feeling dejected over it.
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