Shearer095 Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 (edited) Basically Me and my friend have been friends for three months, and in that time we both agree that from her side she has never had this much drama and arguments and with anyone before and neither have i.. but we both said/agree that we have never connected to anyone like each other before! Its also a good idea to note i love her its been three months and its safe to i know i do..but here's the kicker..shes gay..well she has had bfs in the past but she has never had a gf but she says she is because she is attracted to women but she always said i'm cute and admitted we would be really good together and she wishes she could feel the same because we could have a happy family..she said that when she was drunk once! Our first massive argument happened two months ago we both thought it was over and we'd never talk again but we made up and we met and talked and she said she has had in the past be able to forgot people and not miss them but when it looked like we wasn't going to talk again for the first time she cried and realized she really missed me which is a first for her! So while we met up and we talked about this..she told me that she wasn't sure how she felt about me whether she liked women or me..she said she had been for a walk in town and not looked at a women once!She also said then how she hates being labeled by her family as gay and that's it she said give her sometime to think and decide and she will let me know..but three days later we got into another massive argument and after that she said just wanted a gf!since then we went on to have a few big arguments but when we always made up and admitted how much we miss each other and promise no more arguments. So what do i do? i really don't want to lose her i even went to a gay bar with her to show my support even though it was a kick in the face for me obviously because of my feelings. Edited November 15, 2015 by Shearer095
rlc1957 Posted November 21, 2015 Posted November 21, 2015 I would move on from this situation. I would forget her, lose her number and remember that it is about her, not you.
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